Hi everyone,
Recently, I had posted a query about my sister, I am very happy with the responses I have got… I have one more query, it’s about a friend… if u people do not mind, I need your suggestions..
I have a friend by name Thyagaraju… he is the only son in the family and has two sisters and both of them are married…
He is very ambitious and has some big dreams about his career… he is seriously very much career oriented person… he has done his diploma, after diploma, he had joined for engineering… but then, after one year of engineering, he had quit engineering, because he understood his family financial situation then and realized that his family could not afford his education… after quitting his engineering, he was doing some part-time jobs and helping himself…
Like me, even his family had lots of troubles about his sister’s marriage… their family too faced lot of pain and he too shared all the pain… now his family’s financial situation is fine and also his sister’s life is absolutely fine… and now he is thinking about his career, that’s not bad right…
Now, he is planning to go ahead with some kind of course, so that he can get into IT field, and he needs around 1 Lakh for that… he does not have that money, but then, his family can somehow afford it, but then, right now, their family is saying that they won’t help him in anyway…
Their family has a property of more than 1 crore, in the form of land and own house and this person, has told them that he do not want anything out of that property, but he wants their family to help him make a career.. But his family is not with him now… he has even begged them to get him a loan from somewhere, so that, he will repay the loan by himself, but again, the family is not interested in helping him out…
He even had gone to the extent of asking the family to share the property, so that, he can go by his way and make his career and lead his way, but then, the family is not supporting that also…
He is very depressed, and as a friend, I am scared that his fear of not being able to make his dream career come true might prompt him to take any stupid decisions such as, maybe even suicide…
As a friend, I badly want to help him out in some way, but then, financially I cannot help him as I myself am not very good financially… maximum I can do is probably give him some moral support and I am doing that…
Point is simple, his family won’t help him financially, and they won’t share the property as long as the parents are alive, but then, if my friend doesn’t act now, then, his whole career will be gone…. He feels very sad that his own family is not supporting him when he needed them, now, he also sometimes feels bad that, inspite of him sharing all the pain in the family, now when things are okay with the family, now he is being singled out with no help, no property, nothing…
He loves his family a lot and does care for his family, but now, does not know what to do…
Hope you matured people do give some suggestions…. So that I can pass them to him and make him comfortable…
