Me and my husband got married in 2021 and had a baby the same year. Throughout pregnancy he didn't stay with me in our house the house we took together when we were in a live in relationship. He stayed with his mother. They had some or the other excuse for it and they didn't let me stay in their house too. Somehow my pregnancy passed and after few months I stayed at his mothers house where I was treated very badly. But I didn't say anything to any one only told my husband. Which also led to fights. While I husband went back to Germany for his office started and stopped work from home. We tried getting visa for Germany but took us very long. I couldn't tolerate his mothers misbehaviour and stress so I went to my parents house where again my parents hated me for not staying with in laws. I still somehow managed to stay other parents as at least my parents loved our child. While my child's grandmother dadi was super rude to me in front of him and also refused to care for him while I cooked and cleaned the house. Finally time came and we came to Germany. My husband was previously also very abusive verbally and mentally harassed me all the time. Threatening to divorce since the day I got pregnant. I was stupid I stayed with him, also I had no support from family. I used to work but due to all this my work completely stopped. Finally one week before we were to come to Germany my husband hit my dog. I refused to go to Germany with him. With which he was fine. He offered some amount and said every month he will pay me some amount and I should take house on rent. But I felt that because of my and my dogs pain, am making my child suffer so then I apologised instead and begged him to get us to Germany. He made me promise that I will cook him timely meals etc etc and not get late or cook simple dal chawal with the excuse that I have to take care of the baby. I was angry to hear it but to keep family together I said Yes I'll do that. So we came to Germany and I've been cooking him gourmet dishes, chicken tikka fish tikka, lasagna cupcakes etc etc lots of things every day. But two days back we got notice from landlord saying that they won't allow dogs to stay in house anymore and I got my dog (8.5 yrs old) with me here. So my husband asked me to give up dog or go with dog to India. So I said Ok I'll with dog to India. He got angry and hit me on my back. Then shouted abused a lot. My baby kept crying he kept trying snatch baby from me. Lot of haatha paaayi happened but the only thing I kept saying was Leave me alone and leave the room leave us alone. As my baby was very scared and crying a lot. He was also scared because I was scared and I was also crying. But my husband kept recording us and kept saying bad things to me about me my parents my dog .. how he wants to kill my dog etc etc. my dog also scared because my husband kicked her so she was hiding behind me. This webt in for an hour so I called my Husbands friends over to help. My husband didn't let him stay, also friends didn't say anything and left. My husband continued harassing me. My baby cried for 1.5 hrs. I feel culprit for this I got my baby in this world in this man's life who doesn't care shout anyone but his anger and his tongue is filthy. He's engineer and earns so much but his language is so bad. He abused in Hindi English and kept saying bad things. This isn't the first time and I know won't be last. I'm in Germany I don't know what to do. Please help.
