Thoughts invited.....................
There is a difference between '498a without merits' and 'a deliberately false 498a'
There are a few threads deliberating 'whether a 498a wife be taken back by husband if wife doesn't succeed?'
How the society looks at those females.......
- Who succeed in 498a, which is rare, and win divorce also.
- Who fail to win in 498a, which is common, but are slapped with 'divorce' as the other party gets it due to 'false 498a'.
How the society looks at those males.......
- Who succeed in defending 498a, which is common, and then win divorce vide 'false 498a' in many cases.
- Who fail to defend 498a, which is rare (and there remains nothing to be discussed about there future on any forum and they deserve to .....)
Though the divorce is one of the possible conclusions in a matrimonial dispute, there is huge difference between 'winning' it and getting it 'slapped onto' their face.
When divorce becomes the most apparent certainty and especially if male spouse envisages it as 'certainly unavoidable' dhabba on their character, male spouses prefer to win it instead of getting it 'slapped onto' their face.