I have a weird case. I got married in nov 2008. On the day of marriage itself my inlaws started small harassements. they never demnaded money just mental torture by delaying marriage n making my parents apologise for no faults etc. We took tht nonsense because I was already married to my husband in court a week back. After tht, i told my inlaws to control such behaviour as I am not goin to take any nonsense from them. I also refused to give them all the marriage jewellry my parents had gifted me. I kept it in my own locker. This annoyed my inlaws and particularly my unmarried sister in law who sytarted verbal harrasment. My husband always supported and protected me. after 21 days of marriage we went to usa and had just phone contact. even on phone they verbally harrased me stating im spending their son's money etc and I am infertile. due to thier constant pressure i had to undergo IVF in just 2 years of marriage. I did that ivf in India wen we were visiting 6 months back. My husband asked his father to transfer some money for my treatment as he didnt have any savings in usa transfered to india. he and father in law had joint accounts. ny father in law refused to give tht mioney and since we were short on time my friend paid for my treatmnet. my husband then got angry at his father and asked him to give all the moeny to us and we told them we will pay just 15000 every month for their maintenence. My father in law is retired and has pension of 6500 rs. so we thought 20000 rs each month is enough for 3 people. my sister in law is earning but never gives even one rupees towards household expenses. the flat is in joint name of my husband and his father. it was bought by my husband and his father was just kept as joint holder because we respect our elders. but now my father in law is not alowibg my husband to enter tht house too. he is nt giving us our money back and some jewelry which my husband gifted me in my wedding is lying in the locker of his mother and sister.
I decided to send police to thir house to collect tht n also informed my sister in laws employers of the course of action i will take to ensure they r not surprsided when police reaches there. but my parents clamed me down saying leave the property n jewelery n go back to usa. after tht my sister in law filed wrong complains with lawyer n sent some legal notice claiming house is bought by her father. actually we have all papers proving that he didnt contribute even one rs toards that house. we also sent a reply. she also accused me of having criminal mindset n turning son against her parents. after my wedding my husband has given almost 11 lakhs to them in 2 years plus the house in which they live.
They still filed an NC saying we r harrassing them and made police officer call us to station. Since it was NC our lawyer advised us to ignore it. Now we r back in USA and they have filed NC against my parents and brothers saying they had created some noise in the society. they filed this NC 2 months after the incident where we had gone to talk to them and resolve disputes.
His parents want him to divorce me because I can not make babies where actually their son has sperm issues.My husband is very loving and caring man nd gets upset if such things are happening around us. Is there anyways we can protect ourselves from such mean people who just treat their son as ATM machine?
I am worried that we will
1) get constant harrasement from them and police.
2) Lose our house. My hsuabnd paid for it and can now nt even enter it because his father says he harrases them. My husband cant even kill a fly, how can he harass anyone?
3) They will force us to pay any maintainence misusing guradian law as both my inlaws are senior citizens and live in gujarat.
4) How can we save our property and avoid mental harassment?
5) My father in law wants us to name the whole flat in his name and if we dont do it he will harass my husband till he does that. He said that clearly to him on his face.
6) Does an email informing about legal activity against anyone be treated as evidence of criminal mindset/
7) I was pregnant when they ssent the legal notice and I traveled to guajart from mumbai on road trip. I had miscarraige due to that. My ivf was sucessful and we wuld have had baby if this had not happend? how can i survive my loss? I have endured pain for no fault of mine.
8) My husband has cut all contacts with his parents but they still manage to make his cousin email us n try to find out about us. We dont want any contacts. How can we do that?
Please reply as all this stress is affecting us in having baby and planning our financial security. we are always worried that his parents will get us divorced or make us bankrupt.