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Left me at my parents house !!

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stylistperson (Director)     13 April 2011

You need to explain the matter from initially and in depth as Rajiv Lodha says.

As I said earlier, involve some respectful common members of both families. As you said very little hope, they may not listen then take next step

As Hemant says, take responsibility of medical treatment on your family, which way if medial expense is the issue, can be short out initially.

you can take both steps at the same time in first meeting.

Your foremost priority to get well soon with medical treatment. If you are not healthy, you will not able to fight anywhere. To fightly legally you will need lots of time and money. If you are spending on your medical treatment, you may not wish to spend time, money & take stress for legal matter then finish your medical treatment first. Keep tracking of activities as Hemant says to collect evidences. (Slowely slowely catch the monkey)

When you ready, take legal action. Which will take lots of time so be prepared for that. Meantime, keep lots of patient. Even you fight, they will not take you home or help you anyway right now as you said only 0.1% hope.

You can write to Kiran Bedi for mediation. (I watched some episode of her justice and she helped in such cases)

At worst case, Divorce is the final stage. As Rajoo says file for maintainnce. Law says rights has remedies so will favour you.

Aditi (d)     13 April 2011

Dear :

Hemant Agarwal

Adv. Rajeev (rajoo)

Arup

Avnish Kaur

Deep

Stylistperson

 

Thank you very much for giving me your valuable advice.

I am really grateful to you .

Thanks.

Aditi  

 

Aditi (d)     13 April 2011

Please Advise :-

My husband use to work with his father .

Through someone I came to know that he is trying to prove that he is and was not working .

They are now running away and is avoiding to spend any money on my medical treatment or my son  

My parents are taking care of all my medical treatment and of my son ( they can afford but I don’t like this )

I have Hyperthyroidism , which is  rare .

I was loosing weight like hell , was not able to sleep in night , my complexion changed from white to whitish , all my bones are showing and a lot more things were changing which were visible , anybody who saw me was kind of shocked .

I told my husband and In Laws lots of time to take me to a doctor, but they never did .

My parents doctor said there is a possibility of surgery .

About any other girl involved , I don’t know anything about this ,neither did I ever thought about any girl in my husband’s life  , though one of  my uncle also said the same thing , he said “ whatever was between husband and wife that does not have anything to do with your son , your husband should have called his son ( my husband has switched off his cell phone and has blocked all farm of communication ).

I still want my husband to came and take me and our son home with due respect..

Regards
Aditi

Roshni B.. (For justice and dignity)     13 April 2011

Best way is to file a DV case,if u want to save marriage.

dont file 125.will u be able to handle 2 cases?it will be too much of a stress.and 125 is far more time consuming too.

 

ADV Rajesh KASRIJA (ADVOCATE)     14 April 2011

DID U DEVELOP THROID PROBLEM SUDDENLY?

PLEASE JOIN THE ART OF LIVING BASIC COURSE U MUST AVOID SURGERY. IT WILL HELP U TO SETTLE U AGAIN FOR UR RIGHTS

Aditi (d)     30 April 2011

Hello Forum ,

We (my parents and I) was called  by Womencell ,yesterday 29-04-2011, ( I was hoping things might get settled)

BUT :

My husband was very rude , he simply refused to even talk to me , he said he doesn't want me anymore in his life ,all the time he was talking about was only of a property( which I bought as a investment for my son on my name)

My husband didn't asked once about our son, he didn't even bothered to ask about my health or my son's wellbeing NOT AT ALL

All he was talking about was of Money ,his Parents and Property ......

Though I said sorry to him and his parents (not beacuse I did anything wrong , but beacuse I didn't want to brake my home )

BUT HE DIDN'T WANTED TO LISTEN ANYTHING

Even the People from their side got angry and told them " the girl is trying everything to save her house , why are you behaving like this " A few from their side also said that the boy is behaving so badly we will not come again in their matter  

 

  At the end when we were leaving ,my father in law came to me and said , "" mein nahi chahta tumhara ghar tootey ""

When he said this I felt very nice , I asked my father in law " aap sab dekh rahe ho ,kya  maine kabhi aapke sath kuch galat kiya ?  he said : nahi beta ,  

NOW : I really don't know what to do ..

1) My husband has insulted me so badly in front of so many people .

2) He has put so many wrong alligations on me

3) He falsely said I took  jewellery worth Rs 15.00.000/= of his mother , ( though he still has my jewellery and other important things ) 

4) He said he doesn't want to live with me .

Suggest me please :

1) Should I try one more time to save my relationship.

2) Should I leave him ?

3) Should I give that property to him ? ( he didn't invested a singel penny in it)

(I don't want any humiliation or fights or anything my son is getting effected  )

4) Should I fight ?

Please Advise

Thanks

Aditi

ADV Rajesh KASRIJA (ADVOCATE)     30 April 2011

1) Should I try one more time to save my relationship.

2) Should I leave him ?

3) Should I give that property to him ? ( he didn't invested a singel penny in it)

(I don't want any humiliation or fights or anything my son is getting effected  )

aditi plz be A JHANSI KI RANI & FIGHT 4 UR RIGHTS & DONT GIVE HIM EVEN A SINGLE PANI GO TO COURT & FILE DV. IT IS UR RIGHT. ALL MEMBERS OF LCI WITH U. WE WILL HELP U ON EVERY CORNER WHERE U WANT HELP

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Rajesh Kumar (Manager)     01 May 2011

Excellent ADV Rajesh KASRIJA for your moral support !!!!

Yes, We all members of this site should support Aditi!!!!!

Arup (UNEMPLOYED)     01 May 2011

1) My husband has insulted me so badly in front of so many people .  --   this means marriage already broken.

2) He has put so many wrong alligations on me   ----   ditto.

3) He falsely said I took  jewellery worth Rs 15.00.000/= of his mother , ( though he still has my jewellery and other important things )    ---   ditto.

4) He said he doesn't want to live with me .   ---   ditto.

Arup (UNEMPLOYED)     01 May 2011

1) Should I try one more time to save my relationship.   ---   no use. he set his mind.

2) Should I leave him ?   ---   he already left you.

3) Should I give that property to him ? ( he didn't invested a singel penny in it)   ---   why? when it is in your name, investment is yours. do not think that he will happy  by getting the property and started resume the married life.

(I don't want any humiliation or fights or anything my son is getting effected  )   ---   yes ofcourse, but no other way is there.

4) Should I fight ?   ---   yes, but take care of your health

Aditi (d)     01 May 2011

Dear ,

Adv Rajesh Kasrija

Mr. Rajesh Kumar

Mr. Arup

Thank you for your valuable advise and support , Please accept my gratitude and regards for supporting me at this point of time ..

Thanks and Regards

Aditi

For each new morning with its light,
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food, for love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.  ~William Arthur Ward


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Aditi (d)     14 May 2011

Hi ,

Today on 14/05/11 I got a registerd letter from Additional Dist. and Session Judge's stamp on the envelope and HMA (Hindu Marriage Act ) written on top of the envelope  ,It has  my name in the To, and my husband's name at the back , the letter has just 2 papers in it one with hand written and a photocopy .

The Papers only has the below given details :

My Husband's name   V/S  My name

My address

date : 15/06/2011.

It does not have any other information at all not any information about any sections , or why my husband had sent this to me or any other information at all ...

Please suggest :

What should I do to know the main matter what have my husband  filed ?

Thanking you in Advance for your helpful guidance.

Regards

Aditi

 

Aditi (d)     14 May 2011

Please Suggest


(Guest)

I think its a letter of  divorce or restitution of conjugal rights.But i cant sure as give further details....

Give further details in this forum  what it should contain?Write down further details.

And above your reply on 30 April 2011, 21:10 its clear that you should take further steps, as 

His intention is clear he doesnt want to settlement.

Just follow my advise and adv.rajiv (rajoo) advise.

Aditi (d)     15 May 2011

Dear Mr. Kushan Vyas ,

Thanks for your help.

We didn't got any other details in the letter other then mentioned above .

We are planning to get the details out from the court itself , As soon as I'll get any details further ,I'll make sure to post here and inform you .

Thanks agin for your guidance

Regards

Aditi


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