Marital Rights

It is mixed aprehensive mail say cautiously presumptive knowing well and/or fishing matrimonial Law !

However;

1. Since you love your husband and your preassumes his convictions in the wake of some xyz legal issue (current or may be filed in future-this your mail does nto disclose), he may be ex-communicated / disowned by his parents and thus legally bound to loose his rights over the properties acquired by in-laws.  Right ! Hence based on this brief it is better to start a new home in support with your husband away from in-laws place and get control over your sugar levels and offcourse save your marriage too in return.
2. It is better to not enggage in legal scores with your in-laws if you love your husband. The issue is with in-laws so why scapegoat your husband in the middle in may be some future matrimonial rights related legal stakes.
3. Concerning DIL rights over in-laws property you do not have none which catena of SC judgment clarifies already. If any movable / immovable property in your husband's name / acquired by him then you can have some claims but not on in-laws properties.
4. If you father was kind enough to support you at the time of marriage / during marrige then he will support both of you for a start of new life away from your in-laws if approached with understanding minus the reading  present setteling legal scores doing the media rounds by DIL's over In-Laws which colly. will infact shoot up your sugar level more.
Have a patienceful counceling of reality of issues you with your family in presence of your husband you will see good amount of light at the so called self inflected tunnel of mild swings you are probably experiencing post last posted mails of yours.
5. BTW what about "marital duties" arising out of a marriage?

All the best to both of you.
Rgds

Thanks. I do love my husband. Thyats why I want this marriage to work. But I am tired of this "tamasha". As for my marital duties, Sir, I have been treated worse than a slave where my in laws are concerned. Neither have I been treated with decency, but I have been constantly compared to my husband's ex-flame. Apparently the house was built for her. To make matters worse, I was expected to do all the housework(in spite of working the whole day) and was told that even daughter dont get such "facilities". as i was not working initially, i was constantly taunted with regard to a job till i got one. Mood swings, yes, because i have not just been used, but abused. If I love my husband...its not the peroperty i want because i come from a well to do family. I dont want my familyto face any more humiliation on his account. I will take your advice and back off, leaving my husband to be a good son.

The case is the famous, or rather infamous BPO case of 2005-2006 with Intellinet and Transunion. My husband was the mastermind. He is charged under sec 402, 467, 468, and 471. You can mail your comments on this one.

:-)

Oh, ok Lars-Johan owned Intellient n Transunion Inc., Equifax, Experian stuff he got into ! uff,ops... to hear that, suggest not to disclose too personal a details in open forums. However, I am based in Delhi and if it helps you may come and meet me with your father / brother to work this out. Afterall if you two love each other there is always a way out to make it work. I am not a legal professional hence I do not charge if that helps :-)
All the best.

Thanks for the reply Sir, unfortunately dad is not too well and my brothers are unable to travel...besides we have no family in Delhi. As for loving each othe, I just feel this love is most of the time one sided, from mine!!

I will be in touch with regard to further development. I just hope and pray things are fine soon.