Hello,
I married my husband and after marriage find out he is impotent Because we never consummated the relationship, and he was never able to maintain an erection in order to have proper intercourse. From day one itself, his parents made sure that he and I were never alone and that they are always interrupted our personal time. I was only able to figure out that he has erectile dysfunction problems when we had some alone time, because He was not able to get an erection, even for over one hour. After one hour he got a semi erection. He does not want to divorce me And for society's sake, he wants to stay married to me, but he abuses me. He even hit me three times. So now I am at my parent's house.
He and my in laws forced me to include his name in our joint locker, where all of my jewellery are in, and he is now holding my jewellery as hostage. My parents gave him dowry money of 20 lakhs. He has both my money and my jewellery, and is refusing to give them back, unless, if I sign for mutual divorce,
He is also refusing to take treatment for his impotency problems.
Furthermore, he is refusing to give back the cash dowry Even if I go for mutual divorce.
And he's saying that he will only give back my jewellery if I sign for mutual divorce, and he will not take any treatment, and he will not return the cash dowry.
I have the following questions regarding my situation.
1. If I sign for mutual divorce, can I file a cheating case on him for cheating and betraying me by marrying me, even though he and his family knows he is impotent?
2. How can I get my 20 lakhs cash Dowry back from him when he's refusing to give back the dowry?
3. Is it possible for me to get my jewellery and cash dowry back from him without filing for a mutual divorce first?
4. How can I file a case against him for cheating me and hiding the truth that he was impotent ?? He and his family tortured us so much.
5. Since I am no longer live with him, I email him multiple times, asking him to return a jewellery. But he's reading my email, I get the read receipt. However, he's not responding to my email. So can I produce those emails in court and take his lack of response as him accepting his faults?