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Anil Kumar Singh (engineer)     09 July 2011

My marriage

 

Dear Sir/Mam

Good Evening,

I am Anil Kumar from visakhapatnam (Andhra pradesh).I have completed my Diploma in mechanical and i am present working with Wipro water.

I have a issue which i like to share and get proper guidance for my further life.

I have been in love with a girl named Augnes Augustine since 3 years who is also from vizag itself.We love each other and we are willing to marry each other. thing is that our affair matter came in to their parents notice and they have made house arrest to that girl.This happened on march 19th 2011 and her mother gave a police complaint on me in mahila police station at visakhapanam saying that i am teasing that girl and trapping her.

In returm police called me to the police station and they kept the girl and myself in front and they asked our opinion.then we both said that we both are willing to marry eachother.

But the problem as on that day was that the girl was one month minor so police was not able to conduct our marriage.

So their parents forcefully made us to write a letter saying that we will not be in contact for 2 years and after two years we can go ahead on our wish.

Now the girls parents have made her locked in a room and torturing her like anything.Now she is major she has overcome 18 years age on june-15th 2011

Now girl is 18 and im 23 we are eligible for our marriage and Augnes is going to support me in all aspects.

Now main problem is i cant speak to that girl because their parents are against our marriage and my parents are also against our marraige.We dont have support from our parents.

Augnes parents have locked her in a room and no contact is with her so that i can contact her and bring her out.and her mother is threatening me saying that if needed i will kill Augnes but i wont allow you people to marry.these words are worrying me more

 

Please suggest me how to approach to her home and to their parents and bring out my love Augnes and marry her.whose help i need to take..

Will government help me to get my love.and whom i need to contact either Human Rights/Lawyer/police station 

I cannot go alone to her home and get Augnes because they are threatening me to kill and and they have locked her in a room.

I am ready to do anything please give me a good suggestion how to bring her out and marry her and in this regard who is going to help me.

Waiting for your prompt response for my better future.

Regards,

Anil Kumar




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 7 Replies

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner )     09 July 2011

@ Author

This is your third post of same matter posted in 1 month by different headings.

May we know why you thanked previous posts replys by various writers and yet again asking same que.?


If the girl is turned major (proof of age should be there) then file a HCP before State HC and pray for her production before HC and subsequently "her release from captivity againsty her will' from her parents ! [Ask a local Advocate what does HCP means] Point to remember here is that the girl should be able to support you before HC Lordship otherwise it will boom upon you and once she is released from her parents both of you if still feel that it is proper and right step to get married then go and get married but "do support her" in all means post marriage in day today married life.


Love between two adult genders is one thing but on a side note don't you think the girl is still young maturity wise to get married off and take responsibilities coming with marriage????


(Guest)

Your name is Anil, u r a hindu and your lover Augnes Augustine i think is a christian. If it is so both of you can marry each other acording to special marriage act. You are adults and have a liberty and a right to choose ur life partner. One thing u must assure that girl must love you, otherwise u may go in trouble.

Anil Kumar Singh (engineer)     09 July 2011

Dear Sir,

 

I have received suggestions that i can approach by lawyer by Habeous co 

 

No is there any problem between our caste is this going to create any problem.

Will there parents take any action against me if so how they can take.

Sir will cort support me if i approach 

because i m going to start my activities from the next month

Girl will surely support me 

Suggest me the procedure 

Going to court getting a lawyer filing a case and other than that what can be done

Please suggest sir

If any thing goes wrong what kind of action will be taken against me

My parents will not support me i will lead the war alone

so i need to be carefull and wise so

thats what my problem is

Please help me sir

 

Regards,

ANil

ankita (Accounts Officer)     09 July 2011

Hello Sir,

I am ankita and getting marry very soon. but i have a question about registration. while registration after 1st sign some 10days edital period are giving and after that they are calling for the 2nd sign. my question is that can it be possible that get register the marriage immedeately without those 10days edital period.

Adv. Chandrasekhar (Advocate)     09 July 2011

@ankitaji,

There are two types of marriage registrations, one in Hindu Marriage Act (HMA) and another one in Special Marriage Act (SMA).  For getting married under HMA, both boy and girl should be Hindus.  They can get married under Arya Samaj marriage and after marriage, immediately they give certificate of registration.  This certificate is valid for all the purposes, but if you want to get registration certificate under HMA, you both can file application along with certificate issued by Arya Samaj, marriage photos and other relevant documents and you both present before  marriage officer along with two/three (verify it from marriage officer) witnesses and he will register your marriage and the certificate will be given to you after two or three days.

In case of SMA, after filing the application, you have to wait for not less than 30 days and again present before the marriage officer and he will get your marriage registered and the certificate will be issued after two or three days.  In this procedure, minimum 30 days gap is required from the date of filing the application till getting the marriage registered.

SARATH RAGAVAN V R (Asst.Prof.)     09 July 2011

my friend (muslim) got third marriage ( two wife are dead ) his wife name are added in raction card , if need also registred  office r not  ( ie means of marriage certifcate )

v.sreenivas sivaram (senior civil judge CUM ADMINISTRATIVE OFFICER)     10 July 2011

Dont bore us with the same old story when it is answered many times


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