Hi, I am actually going through a bad phase of life now. My wife is showing too much of EGO AND ATTITUDE of not staying with me. This is the third time she has done this kind of drama. She behaves OK if i behave extra romatic and the moment i behave little weird she immediately plays this game of being goody also she usually doesnt like family compromises which we have to accept in family and suddenly when any such moment ariseswhere i am not good when she has to go to her home she behaves goody to me and my mother and father ..and says that she will come back after few days .we believe her words and..she stays there and suddenly decides not to come back...Now its been 1 month she has not returned even after i had met with an accident. I spoke to her father and told him to visit my city and talk to me and my family together to stop this drama by his daughter. He said he will come but still he has not come. I am completely blank now as my wife is just playing around. She has come to my city which i came to now from her office and strange her parents have still not called me or my father to inform that they have sent her back. Extremely weird Family. I dont understand is it the only way to maintain relationships by ladies???Its shocking that they keep leaving the house and take advantage of genuine husbands...A man cannot be romantic everyday. Todays generation girls r 90% who keep saying we left out housefor you and all. we r also understanding that a girl leaves her house but that doesnt mean she does this kind of drama to get importance in life. I really wonder when will girls realize that you also have to accept the husband and family and it should be very mutual than doing dramatic situations by going away from home every now and then. And after late realization would say sorry after situations turn bad for both families. I was also shocked when my wife contacted my uncle saying she is not sure of her decision whether it is right or wrong not to go to my house. also says that she is not happy without me...It also indicates that its all about TOO MUCH OF EGO... I would request ladies to pls understand husbands...Every husband is not a bad person or every family is not bad unless they really trouble you. I am totally upset now as her family is not at all taking any initiative to contact me or my father and this lady has again re joined her job and staying in same city and dont know where she is staying... i dont call her as she is extremely blunt in her speech and makes me more upset which will obviously be my insult that i keep forgiving her attitude every time. I would say marriages either once or twice we have to learn to adjust compromise sacrifice Love care understand each other in every situation and marriages are not a joke...its not only for romantic fun everyday ..it includes good and bad days too...except if it is too bad then which could be understood by anybody...But todays girls leave house any time for silly reasons mostly for husband not being romatic and make an issue of it..... And yes i read in this thread someone said thate parents wont be forever etc...But sorry to say there are really parents who do take care and support their children if they are right at their end.... If a wife keeps leaving the house...how will she remain in life forever? so pls dont judge anyone easily.. Your parents can be your best support ever if your wife /husband doesnt support you.... Guys pls suggest what to do?:-(
