I am husband and filed for nullity of marriage and divorce (under HMA section 12 and 13-IA) due to the fact the refusal from wife side to consummate the marriage and wife filed for RCR. Both cases are pending before different courts. My case for nullity and divorce is in mediation stage and My wife's RCR case is in Batta stage. Now my questions are,
1. I am staying in Bangalore for my work, but my permanent address is my native address. They are sending summons to my permanent address. Even though in my case I have clearly mentioned that even though that is my permanent address, I am currently in Bangalore due to my work. Even last time when they try to serve the notice, I was not available at my native and they didn't give it to my mother who is staying in my parmanent address. Shall I wait until they serve notice to my current residence?
2. As the nullity of marriage case is pending before the sub court, Shall we make a request to stop or pause the RCR proceedings that is happening in Family court? Because to get RCR, conjugal things should have happened and marriage should be a valid marriage in first place. If so, what is the procedure to do this?
3. In my current situation, my wife is accepting that all are her issues, telling whatever she did all are wrong and asking for one more chance to check. What are all the precautions should I take to prevent any future issues like criminal cases like 498A etc., if at all I am willing to continue and give one more chance?
4. I know that there is no legal validity of prenup (pre-marriage agreement),But in my case if we are making such agreements before mediation center, for example: if any similar issues happen in future, she should give mutual divorce etc., Will it be valid in-front of law?