Hema,
I think you are getting emotional when declaeing people are hating woman. Lets see the number
95% of 498A are false
98% of 498A case results is acquittal
Thease are hard numbers by supreme court and number don't lie. So unless all future 498A using woman become angel - you know most of the time the law will be misused.
Comming back to why people have started hating 498A using woman. You can decide for your self - if a relative has slapped 95 times of past 100 times he/she met you without your fault what will be his/her image in your eyes?.Likewise you can understand the anger and anguish 498A affected person.
As always, first step of establishing harmony and get back our celebrated Indian family back is to recognise the problem . I don't see that happening, rather NCW and some other militant woman are working the other way ... and of they don't realise ,they will be responsible for ruining our great culture.
And I said, I hate what they profess and not the person.