1. The crux of your argument is that indefinite maintenance can be awarded only to a spouse who is “permanently unable to be self-sustaining.”
2. The principal flaw in your argument before me is your failure to define “self-sustaining” by reference to any standard of living in reference to Asian cultures.
Reasoning:
Marital standard of living has long been listed by our legislature among the factors pertinent to the duration and amount of spousal maintenance. For this reason such factors as 'length of the marriage', 'the receiving spouse’s contributions to the education' and 'earning capacity of the paying spouse', and the 'receiving spouse’s reduction in income' or 'career opportunities' for the benefit of the 'family home (being housewife)' and 'children' bear heavily on the trial court’s effort to establish an "equitable" award.
An maintenance award (alimony) until death or remarriage is a prediction by the trial Court that one spouse will never be able to independently approximate the standard of living established during marriage and that the other spouse will remain financially able to contribute to the first spouse’s support. When, in most cases of S/W engineers or spouse using logics before us that finding is supported by the evidence I find no "inequity" in placing the burden on the paying spouse to later prove that a substantial and continuing “change of circumstances” has occurred thus alimony as equitable award is understood from angle of case-to-case basis:-)