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What should i do?

Hi Members,

This is snehal i got married nearly 2years back and my husband sent me to my mothers place in the name of custom. I am a working lady and i got to know after marriage that he had an affair and because of broken relationship his mother got him married to me.

She and her sisters changed his mind to marry me. After marriage he was good for a week, thens tarted showing his colour. Stopped talking to me and spoke vulgar language and also started complaining about dowry and my looks.

I was going into depression after all this. He use to take my salary and also not give me even a rupee. He had some kind of mental trauma all the time. He also spoke bad words with my brother and father.

He and his family then started asking for divorce, i thought with time they will change but they dint. My father approached a lawyer and he suggested me to file RCR. I thought i should talk to my husband before going to court. I asked him to meet me but he was ignoring and one fine day my MIL called up and abused my parents and asked them to take my belongings from their house or they will throw them off.

I approached the local police and told them this thing, they called my husband to PS. He and his parents have come and said they will come back and when the officer asked they said we dont have any complaints against her.

Soon after 2 weeks my husband is missing now, he is not available at home and also left his job. His relatives are telling that he has gone abroad. What should i do now?



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(Guest)

Dear Snehal jii,


In your case it is clear with your post that your husband is reluctant to live with you and also his family memebers.Better try to speak one more time with him and his family as what they want.If their answer is big No then proceed for divorce by their consent.Prepare your lists of items given to you as streedhan and one time alimony,but make sure every thing should be genuine,else the case will be dragged and you have no benefit in this.Ask your elder to approach their family for peaceful settlement.


No RCR would make him to cohabit with you as husband and wife,it's totally waste of time and money.In husband and wife relation only one thing matters a lot that is feelings for each other.Here,one sided feeling will can't to anyting.And don't ever think of taking revenge by filling 498a or dv cases as it will hamper your time and patience too.Becauze the end result will be zero to teach them how to behave with you.


Better concentrate on your job and look for better alliance who could understand you and be with you at any circumstances.Life is very short to compromise sorrows and fellings as happiness is no more in such relations.Just move ahead........


regards,


A sufferer...

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