Central Key to Confidence

Why do you say sometimes that I am confident about a person, a company or an organization? The foremost reason is always person or organization has been maintaining quality standard and you have experienced the same many times. Let us understand this through few examples:

1. You visit barber shop first time to get your hair trimmed; you just give hint about hair cut, he gives you the finest hair cut. Will you not become confident about this barber?

2. You visit a particular restaurant time and again and every time you get superb quality of food and services. Will you not become more confident about this restaurant after each visit?

3. You join a job, you always complete your work on time and ensure quality; will your boss not become confident about you?

4. You are a building material supplier and you get a new customer who had been getting inferior quality material despite making timely payment, you constantly supply good material and today he believes you blindly ; will he not become confident about you?

5. You approach a new tailor to stitch your clothes and he gives you the best quality every time you take his services; will you not become confident about this tailor?

6. You appoint a new trainer in your company to impart training on time management and productivity. During very second week people come up with better productivity and results and start leaving office just after office hours; while before this training they used to sit there for long hours despite office hours got over; will you not become confident about this trainer?

7. You had lesser production than demand; somebody approaches you and offers his consultancy to improve production through same machines; you find within a week, production starts increasing; will you not become more confident about this person?

So friend, if you ever have confidence on a human being, a company or any other organization that is by virtue of their quality only. So if you want to become confident develop your own qualities according to your flair and passion.

To understand it clearly let us go through few examples. Will you not feel confident about you if you have following qualities or personality traits?

1. You have developed good communication skills.

2. You have developed time management skills.

3. You have become result oriented.

4. You are being energetic day by day.

So if you know, certain personality traits can skyrocket your confidence level and ensure quality in whatever you do, why not develop those traits?

 To summarize this point let me share with you a personal experience. I used to complete my work without ensuring quality. Many times I got tongue lashing from bosses and seniors; even I could not justify my mistakes most of the times.

Then I made it a habit to double check or triple check my own work before reporting to boss or sending the same to the client. Everybody started appreciating my work and my working style made me confident. Although I was sincere to my work but I was missing one important point i.e. quality.

So most of the times we all know what personality traits we need to become confident and successful and good part is that all personality traits can be learnt easily.

Using quality to skyrocket confidence level – Action point for you:

1. Be clear in mind how your quality or personality traits affect your confidence.

2. Develop traits to help you to increase quality of life and work.

3. Your quality will make you feel confident and people will also become confident about you.

Yogesh is working as spoken English and career development coach. He is providing classroom as well as online coaching for spoken English, Interview preparation and personality development. His articles on communication, personality development and career development have been read by more than 60000 people online. His first book “Speak English like a Star” has been largely appreciated. To know more about his work visit www.sviindia.com  or Visit youtube channel: Thesuccessvision or mail us at yogesh@sviindia.com