Adult survivor of child abuse
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 30 July 2018
This query is : Open
Dear Madam/Sir,
I am adult survivor (aged 23 years). I was been abused sexually by my cousin brother when I was 10 years old.He abused me sexually by touching and licking my private parts.Its so disgusting and hurting for me.I was hopeless when he took to his room and abused me physically.
This pain is haunting me since many years.I have been threatened by him to not share this with anyone.I am traumatised and feeling hopeless.
I am planning to take legal action for the loss and pain I have gone through these years. These people should deserve punishment for their brutal acts.
How do I go about it? Please suggest me.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 31 July 2018
The incident(s) of alleged sexual harassment is stated to be 13 year old, without specific averment, no case is made out.
It would be better to forgive and forget such past as a bad dream.
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
Well Advised by Dr.J.C.Vashista
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
Being a Child of 10 years you should have informed this to your parents or elders of your family or at least to your teachers or to your close friends or else you could have walked in to the police station.
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
Still you could file a Police Complaints with valid Medical Reports from Government Hospitals and Valid Report from Government Psychiatrist Doctors along with evidences if any.
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
Crimes Must Not Go Unpunished
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
Discuss with local Advocate or you could approach Free Legal Aid Forums in the concerned court.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 31 July 2018
I was shy and afraid to share these incidents with anyone.It took me this long to open up my issues.
Thank You for the help Sir.
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
Now God has given you the Courage. Nothing to be embarrassed. Come out boldly and start the procedures of filing the Complaint.
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
Your complaint would teach a lesson not only to this particular Culprit but it would be warning to others also
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
Be Bold and Courageous and Proceed Legally. All the Best.
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
For any doubts or clarifications post it in the same Thread.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 31 July 2018
Okay Sir.Thanks for uplifting my spirit and understanding my problem.
Sir, as I am new to these legal procedures, could you guide me how do I go about it in detail?
I have no prior knowledge as I have never faced any court so far. How do I find a local lawyer for my case?
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 31 July 2018
Sir, will private hospital bills of my menorrhagia consider for evidence in this case.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 31 July 2018
These are the only evidences I have presently.
Guest
(Expert) 31 July 2018
First file a Police Complaint in detail to your area's Police Commissioner Or SP of your place
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 31 July 2018
Okay Sir. I will do accordingly.
