Dear All
A very sensitive post. Even though it has no relevance to law, but it is ever so meaningful, as law is for the people. Hence, the emotions, the sadness and the feeling of emptiness also goes hand in hand with the legal issues that people would face during their journey of getting seperated.
Its just a difference of opinions and the timing that lead to couples getting estranged in their relationship. But whe you look back and you realise that it was not even with the pain that both husband/wife would go through.
I look back and the most that I miss about my wife is the cup of morning tea that we used to have with each other. Nothing too expensive or grand things in your life are as missed or remembered as the small things, which make life soo special. I had lost my job and used to stop her from going shopping, but now i realise that i should not have, cuz even after a new job or money can be really earned at any point. But then the joy of spending or doing things together is not there. The reaturants which I really loved and we went eating, have lost all flavours as the fun was in eating together.
With Diwali approaching, the sense of emptiness fills me, knowing that even though would have my family together, but the one whom I married and a wife, would not be. Yes, we had lot of differences and i went through hell. But then again, the few things that she did for me, those special moments just tear me apart now, cuz in my pursuit to have perfect relationship, we just killed the very essence of it.
Relationship is and will always be about imperfections and it would be upto us to make perfect sense of it. A lot of effort and understanding is needed.But in this era of instant gratifications and fast foods, everyone is in a rush for a quick exit too.
...so i dnt need to fast for your long life...
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