Me and my wife got seprated on 20-Jul-2014. at that time she says that she will send divorce papers. after waiting for 4-5 month i filed case u/s 10 of HMA for Judicial seperation on ground of mental cruelty. they did not appear on first 3-4 dates. finally i serve the notice by hand. they didnt appear before judge but a meeting held face to face where they imposed several baseless blames on me verbally. after few days they gave police complaint in which they mention name of my whole family members. Dy. Supdt of police called us within day to appear before them on next day coz alongwith complaint they manage to get political pressure to take immediate action against me and my family. they have imposed many false elegations. after listening whole story the DSP says that i can only give sometime so that u can settle mutually. by their efforts finally they agree to settle but with aa big amt. i cant manage immediately.
now i want clarification on following points.
1. Should ask them to withdraw police complaint or to just file affidavit the we have aa settlment agrement?
2. as they also want one time maintenance for daughter and custody, does that mean in future i cant take custody of my daughter.
3. i am fearing that amt. they get will not be spend on my daughter, rather they will utilise for their on purpose. can i bound them to spend only for my daughter (with some terms)
4. what is the best option that i can choose to bound that in future they did not harass me.
