As you have communicated in writing:
1. That you are resigning.
2. To complete exit formalities.
Therefore you have not absconded.
The attempt of HR personnel to declare you absconding will fall flat on his/her face.
It can adjust notice pay in FnF statement.
HR is not your employer and is just another employee and has a responsibility to process your FnF payouts and documents..................
If it is not amiable escalate to good offices of appointing authority,MD etc......
You have done good by doing so. If you have not taken a screenshot or printout, then Now you may minute it .......................and if you have taken a printout you may attach it with your next communication that you have not received any communication hence nothing is pending at your end and to supply you the acknowledgment of resignation,acceptance,Original FnF statement (showing adjustment of notice pay, computation of leave encashment,bonus, reimbursements,incentives etc) for verification and acceptance by you,Service certificate ( Refer:Model Standing Orders:Sec16), Relieving letter, payment of Fnf wages by bank DD,Form16 as per correct FnF statement,NOC/NDC, PF number with a/c slips of all months,ESIC card,etc................by Redg. post.....
It has to supply everything and you should collect everything.
Software/IT/ITeS companies are covered by ( Name of the state) Shops and Commercial Establishments Act that was enacted to govern the service conditions of employees working in such establishments…………………………Notice Period/pay is part of service conditions……………
Standing Orders (certified/model) are also applicable…..
The notice period is part of service conditions that are governed by various enactments applicable to employer/establishment/employee.................e.g. Standing Orders (certified/Model Standing Orders; as per Sec13 it is Nil during probation and 30 dasy after confirmation ), and (Name of the state) Shops and Commercial Establishments Act that was enacted to govern the service conditions of employees working in such establishments and these being instrument of law/statue/Act shall prevail upon any private agreement drafted by employer be it appointment letter/HR policy/service Rules and Regulations/contract of employment/ service agreement etc..............
Thus if the notice period as per these enactments is NIL then any notice period say 15/30/90 days stated in appointment letter/HR policy/service Rules and Regulations/contract of employment/ service agreement etc..........shall be VOID.
Thus no notice pay can be adjusted. You may go thru this Act and (Name of the state) Shops and Commercial Establishments Rules as in your state.
The company has to enter the resignation tendered by you in various registers prescribed under these enactments/rules and charge of abscondment shall amount to falsification of record and is an offence……………….
IT employees have many employee’s unions now and are also affiliated to trade Unions like CITU,INTUC,AITUC,BMS etc……………………and trade union leaders and your able Labor Law Consultant/service Matters Lawyer can submit a fitting reply to the legal notice of the employer……………….
You may go thru the following thread too;
https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/How-to-deal-with-absconding-employee-116502.asp#.VPLcDNKqqko