I married on 2012 as per Hindu marriage act in New Delhi. My marital life has been extremely painful due to the very abusive attitude of my wife and unnecessary involvement of my in-laws and their constant provocation to their daughter to kick out all relations with my aged parents (age 72, 65) who stay far in R K Puram, New Delhi in our own flat. I am posted in Mumbai on a central govt. duty and have been living separately there with my wife since marriage.
After the delivery of our only son, my wife left me with my son to her parental house in New Delhi where she has been residing since past 1 year 6 months. She has kept no contact with either me in Mumbai or my parents in New Delhi within this period. She abuses me and my parents like anything as and when we call her to return and doesn’t give any information about our son/his wellbeing. I have been sending Rs. 10000 every month for the expenses of my wife and my son despite they are residing in my wifes parental house till now (through NEFT transactions). She is not at all interested to come back to Mumbai and stay with me even after 18 months even after several requests. Recently she has been threatening me and my parents of sending to jail in false 498A and DV case if I don’t agree with all of their demeaning proposals (mainly kicking out all relations with my aged parents even when they are residing far away in Delhi and full control of my family by her mother). We have neither taken a single thing as dowry in marriage nor have we demanded anything anytime anywhere from wife/in-laws. She with her family members has left no stones unturned to socially defame and isolate us by visiting/communicating my friends/colleagues/relatives/well-wishers with every false and dirty allegation of no proof/basis.
My questions are as follows:
- Even after long one and half years of physical separation and no communications thereafter, is it possible for her to maintain/lodge a false case of domestic violence suddenly now? She has not kept any kind of relationship with me/my family for last 18 months and never took care of my family since marriage. She has been staying with her parents.
- Is it possible for her to maintain/lodge a false case under 498A in Delhi after long 18 months to extort us and in that case whether police can arrest me without any warning/preliminary investigation in Mumbai, her marital home?
- Can she lodge a false 498A case in Delhi where she is presently residing with her parents, although her marital house is in Mumbai?
- She is falsely accusing me and my parents of doing mental torture on her when there is no communication between her and my family for long years and never any such things happened in past also. Doesn’t it require proving /give evidences of mental torture in the court of law?
- Who will take the burden of proof of false allegations in 498A or DV case: The complainant or the respondent?
- Can I get secured with an anticipatory bail for myself in Mumbai and also for my aged parents in Delhi before filing her false FIR?
- Is it wise to visit her in her parental house now/future? Can she press complaint of false harassment with the help of false witnesses of her family members if I visit there physically?
- Will there be any legal implication if I stop sending her money onwards?