Sir,i have been in relationship with my gf from last 7 years ,then i went abroad for my future studies and job ,when i was abroad she called me that her parent are searching boy for her .so if i dont come to india she will commit sucidie as she is not willing to marry anyone other .she had cut her hand viens and she emailed me her pic i got scared and l loved her so i lleft my job come baack to india with heavy loan pending against me .we got married in arya samaj 2013 after that we both went home and when parent got convinced we both got married agaiin in march 2014 with no dowry.after that we had some dispute with patner and my bussiness got collapased .and due to loan was pending i had suffer damages from bank also during this period.she ddint liked that and instead of convining me she blamed me and complaint me for the things i couldnt buy for her due to finanical crunch during that time .then after a month she was pregent with lot of compplexion and she deliver baby in december 2014 .delivery expense and everythiign happned at my city .after thats she went her home in another city.her parent had brainwash her and ater that she ddiint want to return my place .i went with my parent ,relavies frds went more then 25 times in 9 month we all tried to concivne her that she should come back but she has stick to own point of view she dont want to stay with me.when i give soemthing to baby they dont accept .now they are giving as treat calling if we dont give divorce that will put all allegiation against me and my family like dowry and domistic voilence and all.
1) i want to ask how maintance will be calculated i have done master degree in IT and she is mba.i have no IT reuturn since i am workng with my dad bussines supporting him.i had propertyin my name which is in legitation court case pending in court with lis pendency in 7/12 .my dad patnership bussiness also court case pending in court .i have a daughter how much maintence i have to give her and my wife she claim
2) if she files dv and 498 how to fight back ? i never did any dv with her.and we had bear all expense form baby delvers to everything when she was at my city.i bear all expenses before her marriage also like her fees for mba ,paying her parent house bills .
3) how long it takes to get divoce if she goes in court and files cases and charges agian me