My story is as follows
1) I got married in 2006. I have a son out of my wedlock, he was born in 2008.
2) Last year I had met with a minor accident and fractured my hand/leg in the process. My wife used to stay with her parents on the pretext that she needed her parents help to look after the kid. During the period I was immobilized, my wife continued to stay at her parents place and didnt respond to my pleas to come the marital home to look after me. I was frustrated and send her few sms's stating that she neednt return to the marital home as she was not helping me when I required her the most. I had send those sms's out of frustration and didnt have any intentions to go for divorce.
3) After that incident she took away all her belongings and filed for divorce after a month. I apologized to her and made several requests asking her to return, but she never came back. There has been much progress on the divorce case and all counselling sessions have failed as she says that she is no longer interested in leading a life with me.
4) Few months she also filed a 498a case. Now she and her lawyer are threatening that they will be filing a DV case against me, if I dont accept their terms and conditions for a mutual divorce.
What are the implications of the SMS I had send? Does that SMS prove that I was cruel and I had tortued her mentally?