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kiran   03 November 2015

Advice/suggestion please

Dear Sir/Madam,

I have married 4 years above, from the marriage there is problem between me and my wife.

Even for small problems, my wife usually goes to her parent's home and tell some false stories to everyone.

My wife is working in private corporate company, I tried to solve the problem between us but after few days she usually creates the problem for meaningless reasons.

 I tried to adjust for few years, based on my friend's advice i tried to find root causes.

 I have traced her mobile bills, bank accounts, mails and social network. While read her mails and mobile bills, found that she had an affair with one of her boyfriend.

 Earlier she refused and flighted like anything, after showing her mail proof she accepted few things and she told that nothing was happened between us but i understood that some mistake was happened.

 Even though i talked to my wife to avoid this kind of relationship and plan to live smooth life. After few days again problem started and she went to her parent's house.

Suddenly she come one day to my home with her parents and took all her things and went to separate home near by her office.

Again i tried to reach her and resolved the problem and stay with her in new house near by her office.

 After few days, she asked me to go out from her house and plan to live separately. I know still she have contact with her boyfriend but i don’t have proof on it. (Always deleting her mails, sms.. etc)

 Now am living separately, even she is not talking any steps on divorce from their end. In case if am applying for divorce she will expect huge amount from me.

 Kindly suggest what kind of actions I can do from my end.

 Thanks in advance for your support and help.



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kiran   03 November 2015

Thanks for your reply Sir, if am applying for divorce what is the maximum amount to pay.

If i get help from third party detective agent and prove her characters & attitude in court, may i get any benefits on it?

According to law, what are the proof should be consider in court to prove my wife characters

 


(Guest)

Going to court is waste.  She found someone, you also find someone for yourself. Stay married, going to court for divorce will cost you a fortune. I give this advice because you have still not stepped into court halls, proving adultery is next to impossible, both for men and women, and for women if you somehow prove adultery, law wont punish her, and to prove it take minimum 10 years, in mean time you will have to pay the bitc h alimoiny monthly till case is over and also after you get divorced.  

 

best is find some nice girl and you also move in, when she does it is correct, when you do how will it be wrong?  Be a man.  Stop thinking about divorce, marriage is just on paper now.  Let it stay like that.

SuperHero (Manager)     04 November 2015

Originally posted by : kiran
Thanks for your reply Sir, if am applying for divorce what is the maximum amount to pay.

If i get help from third party detective agent and prove her characters & attitude in court, may i get any benefits on it?

According to law, what are the proof should be consider in court to prove my wife characters

 

What do you want to do after divorce??


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