rajat (sales manager) 04 November 2012

Affair with married women

Hi Experts,

Please help me out i am in great pressure and depression.

I am single and I am in relation with a married women...since last 1-1.5 years....and before falling in relation we were friends and her family members knows this that we are friends.

One day we were enjoying in party we both were drunk....and in that we did something that we should not.....next day we both were feeling very guilty and she accepted that it is not only my fault she was also equally responsible for the same....

And then aur relation started at that time i told her that ...there is no future of our relation...so please dont expect anything from me, because in future time will come when i will leave her, at that time she said it is OK for her, no problem we can continue....and after that several times we had physical relation.... but now when she come to know that i am getting married to someone she start blackmailing me that she will tell every one about our relation, somehow she got the number of my inlaws and she threat me that she will tell everything to them, she always says that "if you are not mine then you cannt be of someone else".

After our relation i come to know that before relation with me she was also in relation with someone else, at that time also she was married,... means after her marriage she was in relation with others guys as well.

Her family member knows me very well and they also knows that i am getting married, and now she started saying that she will tell them everything about us. and she is forcing me to talk my parents about her. I told her that it is not possibleand my family members will not accept her as she is already married, but she is not listening anything.

She is still married and her married life is not very good, as per her she is not having any physical relation with her husband since last 2 years, she also told me that her husband had relationship with other girls and everyone knows this thing(her family and her husband family). And now her husband also knows this thing that me and she is having affair.

She also threats me that she will commit suicide if i leave her.

Please suggest me what should I do. and what legal help should I take if any thing wrong happens

Regards

Rajat Lalvani

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Gopikrishna Kalyanam (Lawyer) 04 November 2012

Dear Rajat,

Greetings. As Adultery is a criminal offence, it is advisable you slowly get away from the relationship. You cannot leave suddenly as the emotional backfire may damage your future in many ways. Take time to get out. Best wishes

Tajobsindia (Senior Partner ) 04 November 2012

1. Nothing needs to be done; it is a large family with same taste and same lifestyle as narrated in your brief so it seems to prudent ears.

2. Now that you had your dozen nites fling concentrate on your marriage and move on in life and forget these dozen nites behind; there is no smoke without fire

3. As per law her husband can book you under Penal charges and she cannot do anything as per Law except filing a false rape charges if her estrogen level rises.

So keep your zip closed with her if Penal action to be avoided for a while and move on.

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Originally posted by : Tajobsindia
	So keep your zip closed with her if Penal action* to be avoided for a while and move on.*

Sirji, what did you actually mean..? Penal action or p*nile action.?bahut gandahain tuu....sirf ganda baat likhta hain..

rajat (sales manager) 04 November 2012

Thank you all for your reply and advice .....

but one more thing .... like as i said things are not possible in the manner that she want .... and as she always threat me that she will commit suicide if i leave her .... what should I do in advance to handle this from legal point.

Regards

Rajat