Hello Esteemed Advisors,
I got married in Aug 2012 and both my wife & I have been staying with my mom as my father passed away 2 yrs back. It was a love marriage and my wife used to come over home even before marriage and since this was a intercaste marriage, I wanted her to first understand my cultural background etc.
After getting married I saw a stark change in her behavior where she started yelling at my mother, at me and even abusing me. Whenever she used to get angry with even the smallest of issues, she used to start yelling and one night she even started slapping herself for getting married to me. However I still held on to her, made her understand and continued the relationship.
But she grew even more possessive about me and would not approve of me going out for some work with my mother, since I'm the only son and my mother is dependent on me. At such times, she used to send me sms's commanding me to come over home rite away, else she'll kill herself etc.
Each time she had an argument with me, she'd go to her parents house and stay there for few days till I don't go and get her back.
But I still went ahead. Then in Jan she created a scene outside my house by yelling and even abusing me. I asked her to control herself but she did not. She went to her parents home and stayed there. During this time, she kept threatening me on the phone that she'll complain to the police etc while at the same time abusing my mother and me on the phone.
Finally after a month an half, I got her back home. But she couldn't control her temper and started a fight again and asked to me speak to my mother and tell her to shut up else my wife said she'll kill her.
Each time an argument happened I chose not to tell her parents. But after a while I couldn't take it anymore and went and spoke to her parents who assured me she would change her attitide and behavior. But she did not.
Sensing that things would not work, like this, I shifted to a rented apartment with my wife close to my mother's house. But my wife still ad a problem with my mother's phone calls to me.
Then one day she even created a scene when we both went for dinner and my mother called me on the phone. This behavior of hers has made me lose all liking for her. The next day she left for her parents house called me started abusing me and even threatening me.
I left from that house and started staying at my parents house with my mother.
At last I asked her dad to mutually end this relationship ot which she agreed. But now she comes back asking for forgiveness with her dad and asks me to stay with her.
The rented flat has not been surrendered still and the lease agreement is on both our names. She called me the other day and threatens me that either I come and stay with her in that rented flat else, she'll barge into my parents flat where I'm staying currently as she's my wife legally.
I'm not sure what to do. I want to end this mutually. Please adivse. I'm mentally disturbed and tired in these 8 months of marriage itself.
Awaiting a reply,
Marc.
and than see her reaction .
even if a court order is passed and as her father is telling you to forgive her than forgive her but dont forget to forgive her only at the rented place 
