Hello,
My wife and I got arranged married 9 months ago. I wasn't very physically attracted to her at the time of marriage. I told her before marriage that my preferences are different and that I don't feel the desired chemistry with you. I raised this point at least 2 times but she didn't raise any objections. I married her hoping that her personality and nature will make me attracted to her.
However, after marriage she constantly remained angry, aloof, fought and wanted to spend a lot of money. Also, she was never happy in spite of me taking her out to vacations, restaurants, movies etc. She never appreciated any of my efforts and always seemed to have a strong sense of entitlement. In November 2017 she said she wants to go to India (we lived abroad) and didn't give me a reason. I asked her when she would return but she said that hadn't been planned. She also proposed that her family would be willing to sponsor her for the trip. Since she expressed interest in working, I applied for her work permit hoping that starting a job will keep her busy but even after getting the work permit she refused to work.
We had a fight recently and after that she sent a whatsapp message to my parents that she is under extreme mental pressure due to non-consummation of marriage and wanted them to call her back. Now she is back in India at my parent's place but everyday seems like a ticking time bomb.
I was wondering if it is possible to get my marriage annulled on the basis of non-consummation on the grounds of selective impotence? Please advise.