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vinod (Asst manager)     11 July 2013

Any law for compulsory birth to a child for marrieds

My wife filed case against me with 498A, 323, 504,506, 307 & 3/4. After succesful mediation I am living with my wife from last 2.5 months. Now she is forcing me to have a baby.but i am afraid of taking so much big decision at this moment. Earlier we had a baby. After 15 day of birth she left my home complaining my mother's behaviour is not good for her.Normaly she stay at her home & give me foolish reasons of not coming back. After 3.5 months of birth i got news from my wife that our baby expire. Now she is threatning me that it is a law that you had married me and you must have to give me a child if you will not do so she will continue with the above filed case. So please tell me that is there any kind of law exist? 



 10 Replies

Adv Archana Deshmukh (Practicing Advocate)     11 July 2013

If you are married and living together it is but natural that your wife will want to have kids. Ask her to withdraw / get quashed and dispose off the cases so that you shall also feel secure and then go for kids.

Adv k . mahesh (advocate)     11 July 2013

without withdrawn with only midiation how safe are you 

first talk to her and withdrawn all the cases and have kids leave happily 

in future if she files the cases the earlier cases will help you to show that she has withdrawn 


(Guest)

@ author,this is a legal slave as you will not please her, this will also lead to DV. so in contradiction to article 14 and 21 you are not bound to follow her.Fight for your belief and freedom.Record all the statements given by her in this issue as this will lead you a added advantage in case she filed false cases on you.It is not manadatory to have kids without consent of any side of couple.So,First resolve the cases and keep watch for her behaviour if you are interested to keep her.


But in my view it is as dangerous as living with 498a wife than an Indian naagin.Rest is your decision.

Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath (Associate Professor of Law)     11 July 2013

I agree with the experts.

Ask your wife to withdraw all the cases first. After she withdraws, tell her if she again does like that then it will lead to divorce.

Only after this have kids or else you will also create a bad atmosphere for the future kids.

Mango (Consultant)     04 September 2013

You don't have to worry about anything... If you want to spend your life with this woman then only go for the kid... This woman has lost the ground of all the cases... If she troubles your parent again, call 100 and reports the senior citizen harassment case OR

1) Let the case start and file DPA 12B on her mother, father, sister, brother that they allegedly given you dowry and 498A case states the same....

OR

2) Commit mid-term suicide and leave a suicide note with all her family members name in it... Make sure of two things -

1. You survive...

2. Put her whole family name in the suicide note...

3. Ask everyone from her family to contact you before you commit this act....

4. You just need medical certificate so don't use strong chemical brand!

You have to come out strong to deal with these matrimonial disputes....

 

Mango

Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath (Associate Professor of Law)     04 September 2013

I strongly object to the opinion of Mango. This is not a forum to suggest how to commit a crime. Even if it is for stopping something wrong from the wife's side. Commission of suicide is also a crime. Mango can be held liable for provoking someone for committing suicide.

Mango (Consultant)     06 September 2013

Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath @ Respected Sir, Thanks for bullying me in public... Through-out my life, I have been threaten by big business-man, media and many other people for doing things that should be right but bewilder them...! I never took it seriously... and shall I not...

 

I can sense that being a professor, you must be liking theoretical terms as it gives your immense pleasure and appreciation from students... Might be some credibility of the university goes up due to you.  Appreciation from student is easy to achieve as it does not require much determination to turn any milestone of your life. I mean no disrespect but I am keen to understand, what's the significance of those appreciations which you have received so far? What's best value it had serve to any mankind?

 

May be doctorate degree would be giving you utmost happiness that you know all the sections of borrowed constitution from Britishers.... Those piglet were never aware-off that what they're framing until it had not come into lime-light after certain years.... Countries which were way backwards than India were able to come as strong as business-hub but situation of India remained the same, and even worst... 

 

Having a highest degree in law does not teach you any law! Those who had gone through the pain of blind-folded law can teach you actual law in a much better way... Those who had suffered knows what should be right NOT "what is right"; 

 

What law-abiding citizen means in India is a completely different story - We abide law when we pay the bribe to cops who does not want to know what is in our law... For them, law is some order from DSP which will come down to ACP and then to three-star ranking cop and then two-star ranking cop... and same would be followed forever and ever...! We pay them to keep our dead constitution alive!

 

4.5 million men have committed suicide under 498A and those who had left, has no family to trace back but still NCW is calling-out for more games in the name of woman... When NCW is doing woman body-shopping none of doctorate degree holder comes forward to stop them; but when a person come in public comes forward to teach them a lesson, there comes a "Professor with Big Doctorate Degree”... 

 

When Supreme Court defines a section as "Legal Terrorism", "Professor with a Big Doctorate Degree” proudly teach it thrice a week in his class but never dare to counter the same law... Your point of saying that provoking someone for suicide is a crime so how about Legal Terrorism doctor? Have you not come across the same in your book?

 

When law amendment is being proposed which could ruin down the families then "Professor with a Big Doctorate Degree" sit down in a chamber with legs spreading over the table saying, it's pathetic! But when someone comes with a die-hard solution to encounter this problem then this doctor's mind boggles! 

 

When lawyers of both the sides play the role of joker in lower/session/high court then this "Professor with a Doctorate Degree" does not wake-up his senses to teach them a lesson to fight their case ethically... Where were your ethical and moral lessons then?

 

In theory – "Law & Order" manage this country but in reality "Law & Order" is fully managed by Indian citizens... Who has the power is only lawful and right... May be in your books of Laws, this theory does not fit... So, better keep saying what's written over the book please do not suggest someone that what is right! When you have not done this so far then please don't do it now...!


Mango

 

PS:  In case, you need my address to send legal notice, please free to PM me.


(Guest)

 A gud analysis by Mango on Biased Law.

Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath (Associate Professor of Law)     06 September 2013

I think Mango is becoming personal. Its his wish. If he suffered, he cannot stand up and talk senseless against everyone else.

I know whats law and better law in my unique way. I dont need any appreciation from any of my students. I know whats suffering and pain too.

Better discuss the problem of the author here than mudslinging on other experts in personal way

by talking about their profession and degrees.

Anyway god bless u with happiness  

vinod (Asst manager)     19 September 2013

Thank you all.

I am now facing a new condition from my wife. I went with my wife to her home on rakhi festival. There she express his wish to stay for one month. i said ok & came back alone. In between we have communication but only i call her. she only call me once. Now she is saying that there is no need to come my house & i will not come with you. Reason is she want a child In this situation. she has not even taken his filled case back. 

I know if i go for child i will have to face a new bundle of problems that i have already faced.  when i go for child it is clear she will live with her parents & i will live alone meaningless life because she is lady who live life on his own terms. 

This is her master formula whenever she need something from me she just leave me alone & go to her parents. I looses my happy life, a joint family love, lots of money without reason, a progressive career. Now i have a unhealthy body & mind, full tension, no aim for life. Even General day today problems are now become big problems.

She don't want to divorce me. Their intension is to destroy me in all manner if i not follow her. They make me a puppet. I am stuck in this situation with this lady.  some one please help me so that i can come out from this situation. yes i am a man, struggling with life but is there any end for this? is there any way? Please guide.


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