My brief background is, I am an engineer plus mba. 9 yrs back I met my wife. 8 yrs back I got married to her. It was love marriage. I have a son 6 yrs old. I was working and earning well, she was not. Then 3 yrs back she started working and I had a brain stroke and could not work after that. I have recovered well but still have a speech problem and my right hand does not work, so I not able to write or speak properly. Hence I cant get a job right now. We started living apart after my stroke 3 yrs back. One yr back we went for mutual divorce. All money transactions had been completed and is mentioned on petition. At the time of first hearing she did not come and told lawyer she wanted to withdraw. Then november last yr she filed dv on me. March this yr I filed for divorce cruelty basis. June she filed CAW complaint. I applied for ab, judge not convinced that fir will be registered so he gave pre arrest notice of 2 days. In CAW usual tamasha goes on, they dont mention specific complaints, neither they show me complaint file. I have complained to dv judge about this in writing, since then they are defensive in womens cell. She claimed i am earning 2 lacs per month, which is not true. I have given all my bank accounts, IT details, PAN information to judge. I had a property in my name which I sold off for 30 lacs six months back. I have zero income for 3 yrs now. I spent 5 lacs on house dues, 10 lacs on medical and living, 15 lacs on personal loans taken by me. I still have about 5 lacs of loans pending. Wife says she is earning 40k per month, but has not submitted payslip. Due to lack of money I am arguing my own cases as petitioner in person. She has some affair type involvement with some person. Tho we cud not find any s*x related relationship. I have a strong case, as her allegations are baseless. And my medical and financial records are very clear. Plus I have lots of home videos of her and my son proving her allegations false. So I am not worried about dv or possible 498a. Dv court orders are on 27 september. So I wanted to know the right strategy if the court orders are against me, due to biased judge or something. So far she has been fair to both parties, but I have heard horror stories about bad judges from ppl. So I want to be prepared. I have found this site very helpful. Q1. What is right strategy for appealing against interim court orders if needed?? Q2. If my case goes to 498a then will the same dv judge hear the 498a case also. Right now both dv and divorce are in family court?? Q3. CAW cell is doing some hanky panky with the complaint file for sure, what can I do legally?? Thanks in advance for any advice that can be given to me on these question......
