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Kiran Kumar   02 January 2025

Betrayals please give suggestions

Hello Sir/mam,  there is a ongoing conflict with my wife.  I recently got huge pressure bcoz of my wife and parents.  There is a unmarried sister with us living us a joint family after which my parents left to other home.  When there was argument going on with my wife, I got facial dystonia which looked like paralysis. I took the video of myself and wrote a letter stating that my parents and wife is responsible for my death and send it to relatives on WhatsApp . Her brother who is already convicted in arms act and got bail in it . On seeing the letter in WhatsApp he called and asked me to come to police station to give their letter . Later he said to my wife on phone that I'm already convicted of you stay there and I'm dead it would be a big problem for him . On listening to this she told I'm acting which hurt me a lot and ran away.  I have one kid who is 8 months old . Still now one bothered me to ask how is my health either her or her family . Now she is manipulating that she got afraid whether I will beat her upon and bcoz of that she ran away.  Later I was about to go abroad in 5 days from incident . She refused to come with kid later she agreed after so many requests and told that someone should stay along with us in order for her to stay with her.  Right now I'm in abroad I had sent emails to her asking explanation why she left on emergency situation and she is telling that I'm not in emergency.  She is acting only on advice from her brother who is guiding her. My heart is not agreeing to live with her anymore since she left on medical condition. I am worried about my child's future as well.  Right now she is blackmailing with the kid that she will not come to my parents home bcoz of the email.  Basically she reacting over much . Simply the reaction I need to give in this situation she is giving and I'm quiet . She knows that I'm taking medicine for psychartic disorder.  I don't call her for 15 days after reaching here and now she started new problem stating why you didn't call for 15 days.  We don't know until 1 year of after marriage that her brother had a case.  They hided . 



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T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     02 January 2025

What is the relief you want or an opinion to your issues?

You are not clear in what you want to say, hence be a little more clear on the subjecr.

kavksatyanarayana (subregistrar/supdt.(retired))     02 January 2025

You post the facts of your problem without confusion.  There is no clarity in your query to reply.

Kiran Kumar   03 January 2025

Dear sir,  I will explain yu in detail.  My wife was very good until child birth.  After the child was born she is frequently goingto her father's house and not coming back . We have to beg the wife and her father who is supportive to her.  We didn't asked dowry but they are telling we asked more jewels . Now suddenly one day past 15 days I suffered from facial dystonia during the argument .on hatings things around me I am afraid I will die bcoz that was the first time I suffered from that issue and hence I wrote a letter stating my parents and wife was responsible for my death in case if it happens and sent via whatsapp to every relative.  After this happened my wife's brother who is already arrested in arms acts and currently in bail called me and asked me to come to police station and give some statements. I refused .then threatned to beat me up but he didn't came.  Afterwhich he asked my wife to immediately leave the home.  She listened to her brothers statement and went away to her father's house with kid . I was about to go to foreign country in 5 five days.  We begged them and told them I want to be with my kid . She camed to our house two days later stating that some third person should always accompany us.  My worry is she left home on afraid that if she is in home if I am dead , her brothers life will get affected if I am dead after writing the letter.  I don't want to live with her anymore.  She doesn't care about my health. Till now she and her family is telling that I'm acting . But I have doctors report and I am on treatment from neurologist.  I don't want her anymore but did not tell her the same.  She is continuously blackmailing with the kid that she will not live with me anymore.  I want custody of the kid but not her.   I am aware that law in india is favoured to women but I am still exploring options.  Her family is continuously blackmailing that they will go to police station. If they go to police station I am also plannig to file a case against them for leaving me alone during emergency situation which can be treated as attempt murder according to my knowledge.  

 

Please give your opnion on what action we can take further.  Bcoz law is favourable to women in india .

Dr. J C Vashista (Advocate )     03 January 2025

It is better to contact, consult and engage a local prudent lawyer for appreciation of facts, professional advise and necessary proceeding.

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     03 January 2025

You may decide to take appropriate legal action that would bring you solace and remedy but for that youu may have to consult a local experinced lawyer to get a proper advise to proceed legally for geting the desired reliefs

P. Venu (Advocate)     04 January 2025

The posting is vague and disjointed. Please post the material facts avoiding subjective opinions and emotional issues.

Kiran Kumar   04 January 2025

Originally posted by : P. Venu
The posting is vague and disjointed. Please post the material facts avoiding subjective opinions and emotional issues.

Dear sir ,I posted everything happened.  The fact she left during emergency situation is a concerning for me. Her brother is already convicted in getting money on gun point under arms act and in bail now.  Once I send the letter to her brother citing my parents and my wife is responsible in case of my death. He immediately called her brother and told to leave the house bcoz if I'm dead while she was in the house ,he told that police will beat me since already I have a case on me.  She left immediately.  And now when my family ask they are telling that she left house bcoz of fearing that I would beat her up and cooking stories.  Now I'm in abroad she is not attending my phone call and telling to my parents that she is not interested to live with me bcoz I'm having pschychatric medicines. I'm in abroad for my PhD studies sir.  Now she is also denying video calling with kid but needs money.  

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     04 January 2025

No suggestions can be made for practical issues, you may have to handle them based on the circumstances, if she is not attending the phone calls, you may ignore her and take further steps as per law

Kiran Kumar   04 January 2025

Thanks for your response sir


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