@ Uma Jee -
Your say "A sincere man doesn't take 4 years to make the decision. In fact a few dates are enough to make the 'leap of faith' and ask a girl. One doesn't need a 4-year free trial."
Exactly, I second your thought however fail to understand that the same logic when applied to a HIGHLY EDUCATED (as claimed in the first post) girl, she even could not understand the motive even in four years and now crying foul. C'mon who is going to buy this opinion. And now again the same weaker gender, exploited, cheated bhal blah blah outburst. No disrespect to anyone or anybody's sentiments , just a generalistic view.