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taunima (hr manager)     07 June 2012

Brother committed suicide girls family are filling false cas

This tragic story is  of my real brother. 

 

My Brother Ashish Goel was staying in Bangalore for the
> last 6 years.  He was working as a Software  Engineer
>
> In 2008, Ashish approached his elder brother for his marriage.  His
> brother given ad in Local News Paper for matrimonial.  One Mr. XYZ
> Mittal of Aligarh approached Ashish’s brother for Ashish alliance and
> also given his daughter’s contact number of Bangalore.  Ashish and
> that girl met each other at Bangalore and liked each other very much.
> Unfortunately Ashish was in dark complexion so this girl’s mother when
> she met Ashish, she did not like him and she refused for marriage.  In
> the meantime Ashish and that girl started liking each other. They both
> tried convincing girl’s mother but it was no use as the girls mother
> threatened  that if they marry against her wish she will commit
> suicide.  By hearing this Ashish and that girl decided that she will
> marry where her mother’s approval should be there and they stopped
> communicating to each other.  Ashish got another proposal from Meerut
> of Ruchi Sinhal , Daughter of Dinesh Singhal who is having Amul agency
> in meerut.
>
> Ashish belongs to Lucknow and Aligarh (UP). He got married with Ruchi
> Singhal on April 27th, 2009. Marriage ceremony happened in Meerut.
> After marriage Ashish found her behavior very arrogant and
> unreasonable.  After marriage they started living in Bangalore.  One
> day when Ashish was in office, Ruchi came to know about Ashish
> previous affair from Ashish Computer as she got some little bit
> objectionable photographs of Ashish with previous girl. This added
> fuel to her arrogance and rudeness, she fought a lot on this issue
> that evening. Ashish explained her all the facts that this
> relationship could not materialize in marriage and the relationship
> got broke-up long back before his marriage. He told her that he does
> not any relationship/contacts with that girl. That night she pretended
> to be calm down and asked Ashish to delete those photographs from the
> computer. Ashish did that. But even Ashish didnt know that she took
> all the photographs in her CD when he was at office. Ashish thought
> that the issue is over and now his married life will move forward
> peacefully, But next day she again started threatening Ashish and went
> back with that CD to Meerut(UP) to her parental home. Till that time
> she stayed with Ashish only for few days.
>
>  Ashish thought that when she calms down she will come back but Ruchi
> started all the legal preparation to implicate him in false cases so
> that she can extract money and harass him to maximum extend.
>
> This became source of torture to Ashish. When ashish requested  his
> wife to come back Bangalore, she just refused by saying that she will
> not come back until and unless if he signs some legal documents as per
> their terms and condition in writing.  Even after Ashish personally
> assured her that there is nothing left in the previous matter as she
> is married and has her own family life.  She did not agree, and then
> Ashish and his family went to Meerut Ashish's in-laws place.  Ashish
> In-laws called the lawyer and prepared the legal documents where they
> took a signature of everybody of Ashish family with following matter
> in a legal paper:-
> 1)      Ashish in laws spended 15 lacs in marriage (previous they were
> insisting to sign on 15 lacs as a dowry given) when Ashish family
> refused to sign on that as they did not taken a single Rupess then
> converted  into spended word.
> 2)      They written Ashish was having relation with XXX Mittal
> daughter of XY Mittal, Aligarh.  The wife and her family came to know
> about this relation after marriage and because of his illicit relation
> he tortured his wife and his wife was in mentally pressure because of
> this. Ashish and family were not ready first then they threatened that
> they will file the false dowry case against entire family and then
> they will not left with any choice.  Ashish family were not having any
> other option except to sign on this.
> 3)      Ashish will leave his job of Bangalore and shift to NCR.
> Ashish felt week on moral ground as Ruchi threated him that if he
> doesnt sign this agreement she will public all the photographs to his
> family members and distribute it to his next generation relatives
> (niece and nephew). Ashish got stunned when he came know that the
> photos were still with Ruchi and were actually copied by his wife to
> blackmail him. This was something very new for Ashish's family and
> there was excess pressure from the lawyer. Ashish's family was also
> not prepared listen all this, but they though that this could bring
> peace to their matrimonial life and this is just an assurance. All the
> family members including Ashish signed that agreement.
> After signing the same they send Ashish wife along with Ashish to
> Bangalore back in Feb, 2010. Her attitude was very bad towards Ashish
> as she every time use to blackmail and threat for dowry case.  She was
> not at all taking care of Ashish and was not ready to accept Ashish at
> all. She had made Ashish's life miserable. He had to accept all her
> demands unconditionally. His office was about 3 kms from his flat, he
> was instructed to give phone-call to Ruchi from his office landline as
> he reaches and leave the office, just to make her sure that he doesnt
> go anywhere else. Any delay happened leaded to big fight and
> blackmailing at home. She was every time telling him that you should
> better die having such a life.  He was quite shocked to know listen
> all.  He shared all his problem with me but unfortunately I did not
> want to break up this relationship of Ashish with his wife I advised
> to him to bear all as it is their time and you can not do anything as
> dowry act is very bad will spoil the life.  Even I took him to lawyer
> in Bangalore .  He also advised him to not to raise his voice against
> anything as it is her time.  The same attitude of Ashish wife was
> continuously repeated and harassed to him upto April, 2010 and again
> she left to her father’s home town in last April, 2010 (Meerut) by
> saying she has to attend one of her cousin’s marriage and taken all
> the jewellery of Ashish side and her side both. After 15 days Ashish
> and his family phone called his in-laws house and asked her wife’s
> father when they can book the Ruchi’s ticket back to Bangalore then
> same story continued by his father in law that his daughter does not
> want to come back to Bangalore and he has to leave the job and come
> Meerut, even Ashish agreed for the same also.  Again in between ashish
> wife use to call and harass him over phone for false dowry and she use
> to blackmail that she will send his photograhs to all the places like
> his office, his friend circle, his all relatives so he will not be
> able show his face to anybody.
>
> On 20th June, 2010 we came to know from previous girl’s mother that
> Ruchi is searching for her daughter’s in laws contact details as she
> wanted to destroy her life too.  We also came to know from Ashish on
> 20th June,2010 that she is blackmailing Ashish to bring 1 crore in
> within 7 days.  If he fails to do the same she will put false dowry
> case against Ashish and family. In filmy style Ruchi used to send sms
> to Ashish reminding him how many days and hours are left to collect 1
> crore. He had sleepless nights those days. Due to the harassment made
> by the Ruchi, the Ashish was too much of mental agony and pressure and
> he committed suicide by hanging himself from nylon rope  and last his
> life on 23/06/2010.
>
>  He also left a death note, he has clearly expressed that he can not
> bear any more harassment by his wife and her family members.  Also his
> wife is trying to destroy his personal and professional life in all
> aspects and she is also blackmailing for false dowry case to file.  He
> also mentioned his all money should be divided by his father and his
> wife.  He also mentioned his wife to change her attitude in her life
> as it will affect if she marry to any other boy.  He also mentioned
> his wife will be happy to know about his death.  He also mentioned his
> wife probably wanted his death so he should fulfil her wish.  He
> mentioned his wife should not be allowed to see his dead body and it
> should be performed in Bangalore itself.
>
> Since Ashish Native place is in Aligarh (Uttar Pradesh), Ashish family
> came to Bangalore on 24th morning and initially police deptt were not
> ready to give his dead body to his family members they were asking
> wife to come and take the body.  She was not ready to come to
> Bangalore. We immediately made a phone call to Ruchi father and gave
> the information about this, you will be surprised to know the
> reaction, He literally said  "Achcha hua sala mar gaya" Finally Ruchi
> called from Meerut by saying police should handover Ashish dead body
> to his family member and she is not coming to Bangalore.  After all
> his last ride , ashish family went to complain Mico Layout Police
> Station 24th June, 2010 to file the complaint but Mr. C N Janardhan
> Rao(Inspector) who got a huge bribe from Ashish wife’s side (her one
> Uncle stay at Bangalore)was not ready to file any case, but he
> registered as C-mis 374/2010 on 25th June, 2010 complain. Ashish's
> family flushed money to few corrupt police officers. We were not
> having any option except approaching all higher authorities.  Finally
> with all calls to Mr.Janardhan, he registered the case Under
> Section-306 of IPC.  The Crime No. 453/2010 on 30th June, 2010 but he
> did not call Ruchi (Ashish wife) even single time for any
> investigation and given them 2 1/2 months time to get the anticipatory
> bail.
>
> The Inspector’s behaviour towards Ashish family was very rude and
> rowdy kind off.  He did not mention about suicide note when the file
> went for Anticipatory Bail for Ashish's wife.  We approached Public
> Prosecutor and request him to send notice police deptt for death note
> copy then finally it came.  When the hearing of Anticipatory bail was
> there , for opposite laywer has 2-3 strong points :-
>
> 1)                  Delay of filling the FIR – It was the main matter
> for accused lawyer why there was delay in FIR, the fact of delay in
> FIR was because of C N Janardhan as he was not ready to file any  FIR
> except he given on Cmis on 24th June, 2010.
>
> 2)                  He was trying to prove that Ashish was in an
> illict relation as he has accepted in his agreement made in February,
> 2010 (The same paper which was singed Ashish family.
> 3)                  His lawyer also showed to Megistrate  all
> photograph of Ashish of previous affair(it was bit odd) .
>  Thus Ruchi got anticipatory bail immediately. Even her lawyer is a
> very famous lawyer in Bangalore for criminal cases as he charges
> heavily.
>  We met Chief Minister of Karnataka and explained all problem how we
> are suffering with Investigation Officer, he referred to Police
> Commissioner and Police Commissioner directed ACP of particular Zone
> and informed to change the  Investigation Officer. The ACP
> transferred Ashish Case to another police station.  We continuously
> tried meeting New IO and tried explaining all the facts and also given
> our statement in writing .
>
> In November, 2010 Ruchi and family went and met Police Commssioner and
> tried explaining a different story to all the police deptt by showing
> that photograph and agreement paper. Also we came to know from IO that
> they have approached DCP of that Zone with heavy bribe.  Thus chances
> of charge sheet filing is NIL.  Immediately again I approached to
> Police Commissioner he directed Joint Commissioner of Crime in writing
> that this case should be transferred to CCB Deptt for further
> investigation.  By the time we got this copy of the letter on 5th
> February, 2011, Investigation Officer already filed B Report on 28th
> Jan, 2011 to Metropolitan Court. We  immediatelyfiled the Protest Memo. Now the next hearing is in june 23rd, 2012

 

In the mean time we started getting call from Meerut police that we have to compromise in this case or else Ruchi's family will put you in false comlain like stri dhan, dowry act, false fighting with her.  we didnot compromise and they have filled 2 cases against us one in lady mahila dhana and another in local police statation where they have put our name my father, wife, myself and one of our family friend name of this.  please suggest how to take this matter.
>
>
> Therefore for above said all facts and circumstances, kindly all
> advise to further process.
>
> I want to punish Ruchi legally for her misdeed and forced my brother
> Ashish to commit suicide.



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 2 Replies

VINOD VERMA (C E O)     15 June 2012

She must face the music for driving your brother to death. Thw omen in todate are getting cruel and merciless. The best way out \would be keep you case agaunst your so callede bhabi in the court based on the suicidal note. No educated man would ever finish his life untill he sees a grave threat to himself and his family in the hands of hand of (female terrorists) what I call this arrogant women noit thinking what would be the future of their other sisters/female friend. The Man folk would stop hating such criminal type of wemen. Thke the best course of action through some learned Advocate and make sure she is there in prison for the rest of her life.In case of help you can call me @ 09815850278 or email me  vinoo_verma@yahoo.com


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