Can i file a cheating case being accused in a false 498a.

If she get any scholarship & study, let her study. 

If u disturb her study, it is harming . Your intentions, if suceed, will not harm her?? 

Be with positive thinking & I am sure, you will be very happy. For that bear little pain. 

It is a temperory phase of life. 

Never think, other [ specially Sr Citizen like me,] had not gone thru pain of life, probably 10 times more than u. 

But with this whole life experience, I suggest that. 

Take it, or leave it, choice is yours. 

If u so wish, carry on with your idea, 

and analyse after 3 years, which idea was better, u will reply yourself. 

She slap u, u r hurt

so u slap her, hurt her

& both destro at the end. 

I suggest, try to stop from one side. cool down the fire, instead of pouring fuel of enmity. 

Result can certainly be better, then wastinf so much enegfy. I know what is the outcome of all the struggle that u will take!. 

Under the present scenerio, it is very difficult for u to accept my advise.

But I m sure, I m not misguiding you.

I do not know both of u.

I strongly oppose woman oriented laws, that harasses husband and their relative, and create the crack in relationship, that ultimately break houses,  and many persons suffer.

Basically I am with victim, a husband.

But to fight such a law, you harm yourself more.  It is better to bow down in the direction the wind flows, or you are thrown out uprooted. 

Luckily u have 5 times better financial position. Hope she will come to reality, and join you. 

My idea is clear, stop any further crack in relationship. . Avoid bitterness and revenge. It will reward you. 

All actions have equal and opposite reaction. So go smooth, try to help even financially, if she want to study. Pay maintenance if she demand. Take it easy. Be happy, instead in pain. Remember, she is a begger, she beg & Pray for her food, not you.. Keep your hand above her hand, Let her take.

CAN U DIGEST WHAT I FEED U??? OK. BYE  

Calm Calm.

Shri Shonee Saab, I will like to know ur opinion, on my advise! Will it contribute to save one home from breaking??? 

Dear Sir,

The foundation of any relation is trust, faith and love. When even one is lacking, the relationship can not move forward.

People tend to forget the sacrifice and compromise are ways of life.

Some people think that marriage is a perfect way of finding that ONE SPECIAL peson whom they can ANNOY to no end.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor

harassed.by.498a@gmail.com

Some people think that marriage is a perfect way of finding that ONE SPECIAL peson whom they can ANNOY to no end.

Well said Shoneeji.

Dear Shroff saab,

                         I too totally agree with your concept. But only when i am not on the recieving end. One shouldn't stretch anything until it breaks and shouldn't except it to be intact. Now it is already broken because in a matrimonial life can any one tell me what worse can happen than this(Going behind the bars).

                        I respect your age and profession, but i rather didn't like the word that you have used "HARM". I am fighting for my survival. When two soldiers fight, their main moto was not to kill the opposite one but to protect their nation and i am in such sort of nation.

                       I one word i can tell as i dont want to be on the recieving end all the time protecting myself. No body can win the game by being there on the defensive side at some point of time they have to attack. And this is life not a game then any one will prefer to be +ve side only.

                     Please dont think that i am arguing with you, i am just giving out my opinion. And this will be the last post as far as this discussion is concerned as dont want to continue it anymore.

                     All actions have equal and opposite reaction. Your statement and this is what i am following. But with the law and not misusing it.

Thanks.