My marraige is less than a year old and has been solemnasied as per hindu marriage proceedings. However, my wife does not seem to ready for s*xual intercourse and has been pushing me away all this while. Post the initial few days, I went to another city (where I work) and she lived with my parents. She does not treat my Mother well. I had informed her last week about my visit to home and asked her to come down as well. Also informed her that either the same day or the following day I would take her with me to the city I lived and work. However, she did not arrive and only her brother came to visit me. She never even caled me! I have decided to either file a petition for Annulment or Dviorce. Some of the lawyers did says that I could not unless it is a year old wedding; however, they also mentioned that I could under certain hardships etc.. Please note, I have had a call with her last week where I asked her if there was any violence / harassment on her while she lived with my parents. She said NO - and this has been recorded.
Experts here, please suggest if my wife can file a DV and / or Dowry case (498a) against me post I file annulment and divorce petition?
If yes, will my family and I will be arrested immediately? How will the law look at the alligation of 498a post my lawyer sends her the divorce / annulment notice to appear to court?
Experts, please advice. Thank you :)