Case against ex -wife for the cause of social loss and death

@ Autour

1. Now that divorce has confirmed means no appeal she filed till date on any after thought grounds so what purpose it will cause of action upon her to institute a defamation and damages case now ! Nothing other than satisfaction of a 'family hood' ego now on a roller coaster trip. Forget her and march ahead.

2. In my opinion the limitation period is a bar to even institute such two cases unless you show a good cause and for the same I am open for correction if any. Also re. recent Mumbai HC Judgment where husband after filed for perjury and asked for damage cost against her now married wife which was rejected by your (you form Pune) Appellate HC stating "since both parties now married and having respective children no useful purpose will be served....etc. etc." It is there in one of the post you may refer to this mint fresh Judgment to your satisfaction.

3. If she has been having no contact with you and your children who are with you all these days then why give her a entry to your side now that daughter is getting married off? If daughter marriage is to be done then before seeking your divorce you should have waited till daughter's marriage completed if social stigma and or some social issues you foresee from your (now ex) wife side.

Flip all these and see other side of coin; In Marriage revenge and gunmanship may never work because it was at one point of time 'a personal' issue(s) of two grown up adults and till either spouse has not instituted a false criminal charges against another all these pre / post thoughts should be given a decent burial. Look at her life who at 50 years is leading still her life as a gypsy whereas you are left with certain unfinished responsibilities (get daughter married of)...etc. etc.


March forward ji………….past was past otherwise in year 2007 you should have filed damages and recovery read with defamation suits and by this year it would have been decided one way or the other not then plans to get married of your daughter are underway you are harping how to settle an unfinished agenda with ex WIFE…………


All the best and congratulations for initiating / thinking of your daughter’s marriage………….

All people may not think in orthodox manners...And if they don't deserve to be your in-laws.

Concentrate on your daughter's career etc, support her and be with her in difficult times...Her shining career would make all other things insignificant...

Every guilty party has relatives, parents, kids....all those don't succmb under such stress, unless they don't mingle in the same stagnant/stinking surroundings...

Nobody has time ...............................except................. close relatives................ to 'keep scratching on the wounds which otherwise is about to heal'.

Be stronger than ever before. Time is a healer.

There is no strong legal provisions available in our  law (and your grounds as well) to have such a vindictive solace to your scars....

Jamai of Law , what a beautiful reply.

When parents would think more of daughters' career than thier marriage, they and daughters both would remain contented.

Daughters then would know how to cope with it all proactively and not submissively with head hung in shame at their parents' behaviour.