Cheating case

Though gender biased laws are perhaps for you, I'm against you.

A person should always have liberty to go back on their words.

How will, after all, it affect you and not him whether or not there is s*x?

And why only do women have midesty?       Why not men?

There may be so many circumstances under which a person is compelled to break their words;  corcumstances unprovable.

Why to take undue liberty relying on a mere promise?

Humans are characteristic of using laws as weapons, not shields.   

You are showing much maturity in your thinking and understanding things.  Appreciate yourself for understanding such a person before marriage,  and consider yourself as lucky for breaking relations on his own, forget everything, as seeking revenge affects both the parties, and in such transactions, it is the girl that has to suffer more.  You have a lot of life and can do more useful things in the future, do not make this break up a hurdle and live happily.

We have a saying in our Telugu Language.  If there is a rat in our home to drive it out, we should not burn our home".  Consider, as to whether you are purchasing problems in your life for hunting a vampire'.  Those matured need no counselling and guidance as they have already decided and only look for moral support from those who encourage them and rarely think of the ultimate  consequences and personal loss.

You are blessed in that he has shown his true colours even before marriage; certainly, a married life with such a person fraught with many a peril. World is large and life wide open for you. Take matters in the stride and just move on!

Of  course, on legal terms, you have the option of legally proceeding againt him if he had physical relation ship with you on the promise of marriage. But it is bound to be a long drawn out and exhausting effort, and results uncertain. 

Discretion is yours; decide wisely.