Complex situation

I had a inter caste marriage 5 yrs ago. It was a love cum arranged marriage (Both of us are Hindu).

What love???

After one yr into marriage we had a baby.

Love had to be shown.  Good.

For delivery and post it  I was staying with my family. Due to constant quarrels i continued to stay with my parents.

What kind of love???

Faced a brief distraction in my married life in this period. Due to which my inlaws and husband distanced from me.

What kind of love. only making love was the only kind of love that you both understood?  Even dogs do it, but do not abandon puppies and puppy's mother!

However due to various family interventions I went back to stay with them.

Where is the love???

However, my differences never quite sorted and I grew angry and frustrated in my relations.

Angry?  Where is love??  Why angry?  When there is love why get angry in the first place?

This again resulted frequent quarrels and finally I took my kid and came to stay with my family 2 yrs back.

My family?  Your parents are your family is it?  There is no love at all, so you still clinging on to your parents naming them as your family, but in reatlity its your husband and kid who is the real family.

I have refused divorce to my husband uptill now.

DIvorce?  Where is love?"  Why he ask for divorce?  What kind of love marriage you did?  If it were only for s-e-x, then, you could as well have booked a hotel room, used a condom  and made love to each other instead of getting into all this, creating headache to your parents as well as his parents.

We both have lost the trust  and respect  for each other.

Was there any love in the first place?  There was only s*x, and s*x without trust is just fcuking, am not surprised why there is no trust.

Cant really stand each other.

Yes, when you bore a child and he asks for divorce, both cannot stand each other for sure.

However, I would like to start my new life now.

By what?  Having s-e-x with one more guy is it?

I am earning relatively well.

You might find a bakra again.

Can take care of my child.
New bakra will really have to be more than just another bakra who is just interested in having s-e-x with you.

Would like to be guided on the following Qs:
OK

1. We have not yet registered our marriage. So, can it pose as a problem in future? If yes, what can be done? I dnt have any records.
When marriage itself not registered, then nothing to worry, but if your hubby comes after the kid then problem.

2. Can I prevent my husband into not meeting my child? (Have not allowed him to see my kid for almost 1.6 yrs)
No.

3. Can I claim any rights on his/inlaws property? (My inlaws have property in their name , whereas my husband has nothing on his name)
No.

4. Can he file any case against me for not allowing to meet my kid (he has spoken about taking legal action)? If yes, then what can be done? 
Yes.

5.Would like to know post divorce, If I remarry ,then what happens to the custody of my child? 
Kid be there with you till age 7.  Then kid become ping pong ball.
 

Awaiting your suggestions.

Thanks

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