I got wedded in 2004 (It was love marriage)
Wife immidiately joined me as i was in service and away from my home. She had never been to my paternal house or to any other relative of mine. Sometimes I asked her, but she was never willing.
I Was less educated than her and after sometimes this issue arose, also she quit her job to join me after marrieage. Then so many indifferences came among us. She had some medical issues and was not able to concieve. she concieved and aborted. In the meantime our relationship became horrible. She had suicidal tendencies, she always eleborated the minor issues, whereas i always avoided those issues. Then my silence became a weapon for her, the situation got worsened.
we had a baby boy in 2010 Sep, I had calledup her parents for assistence. She kept on behaving in same manner , even in front of parents. She always tried to insult me in front of my friends.
In Dec 2010 she left me and went to her paternal house. The she started abusing me on phone (I have some of the calls recorded). She asked for divorce. I assumed my family life has ended and was living alone.
After 5-6 months of desertion, I came closer to a girl and now we wish to marry.
Now my wife has come to know about our affair and is not agree for divorce.
I am planning for contested divorce and the process in underway. Whereas he has sent some legel notice for DV and Dowry etc. she has included my brother and father co-accused, whereas the duo have never seen her and have never talked to her. she claims that under influence of my relatives i have tortured her for dowry etc........*
Recently she sent a legal notice to my new (or say lover)..... and her nearest police station and also a copy to my GF's office. claiming that we had a un-social and illicit since a long time and I have purposely left my wife to marry my GF........ * (she has reffered section 494 & 495 through her lawyer.
Me and my GF sometimes talk on her official cell phone, can it be taken as a evidence for bigamy or adultry. She is with her parents (in a different city) and I have not visited her place since more than one year.
