gudevng..... i have contacted my husband lot of times for cohabitation but to no good......rather he says that he will complain in the court that i have irritated him by sending so many messages/emails.....i want to know that since my hubby has filed for divorce.....and if court wants me and my hubby to go through the counselling process.....and if my husband refuses to go through the counselling process by saying that i have irritated him a lot on messages....so will the judge scold me for this? will the judge cancel our mediation process just because i have contacted my hubby many times?