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Right thanks for the advice.
I have some doubts
1. If my wife files for divorce what can possibly be the grounds of divorce and what evidence could be shown to prove it?
She can flie divorce on any of the following:
The following are the grounds for divorce in India mentioned under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.
Adultery – The act of indulging in any kind of s*xual relationship including intercourse outside marriage is termed as adultery. Adultery is counted as a criminal offence and substantial proofs are required to establish it. An amendment to the law in 1976 states that one single act of adultery is enough for the petitioner to get a divorce.
Cruelty – A spouse can file a divorce case when he/she is subjected to any kind of mental and physical injury that causes danger to life, limb and health. The intangible acts of cruelty through mental torture are not judged upon one single act but series of incidents. Certain instances like the food being denied, continuous ill treatment and abuses to acquire dowry, perverse s*xual act and such are included under cruelty.
Desertion – If one of the spouses voluntarily abandons his/her partner for at least a period of two years, the abandoned spouse can file a divorce case on the ground of desertion.
Conversion – Incase either of the two converts himself/herself into another religion, the other spouse may file a divorce case based on this ground.
Mental Disorder – Mental disorder can become a ground for filing a divorce if the spouse of the petitioner suffers from incurable mental disorder and insanity and therefore cannot be expected from the couple to stay together.
Leprosy – In case of a ‘virulent and incurable’ form of leprosy, a petition can be filed by the other spouse based on this ground.
Venereal Disease – If one of the spouses is suffering from a serious disease that is easily communicable, a divorce can be filed by the other spouse. The s*xually transmitted diseases like AIDS are accounted to be venereal diseases.
Renunciation – A spouse is entitled to file for a divorce if the other renounces all worldly affairs by embracing a religious order.
Not Heard Alive – If a person is not seen or heard alive by those who are expected to be ‘naturally heard’ of the person for a continuous period of seven years, the person is presumed to be dead. The other spouse should need to file a divorce if he/she is interested in remarriage.
No Resumption of Co-habitation – It becomes a ground for divorce if the couple fails to resume their co-habitation after the court has passed a decree of separation.
The following are the grounds for divorce in India on which a petition can be filed only by the wife.
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If the husband has indulged in rape, bestiality and sodomy.
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If the marriage is solemnized before the Hindu Marriage Act and the husband has again married another woman in spite of the first wife being alive, the first wife can seek for a divorce.
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A girl is entitled to file for a divorce if she was married before the age of fifteen and renounces the marriage before she attains eighteen years of age.
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If there is no co-habitation for one year and the husband neglects the judgment of maintenance awarded to the wife by the court, the wife can contest for a divorce.
Based on the Dissolution of Muslim Marriage act, 1939, a Muslim woman can seek divorce on the following grounds for divorce in India.
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The husband’s whereabouts are unknown for a period of four years.
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The husband has failed to provide maintenance to the wife for at least two years.
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The husband has been under imprisonment for seven or more years.
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The husband is unable to meet the marital obligations.
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If the girl is married before fifteen and decides to end the relationship before she turns eighteen.
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The husband indulges in acts of cruelty.
Let us check out the following grounds of divorce mentioned under the Indian Divorce Act, 1869.
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Adultery
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Conversion to another religion
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One of the couples suffering from an unsound mind, leprosy or communicable venereal disease for at least two years before the filing of the divorce.
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Not been seen or heard alive for the period of seven or more years.
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Failure in observing the restitution of conjugal rights for at least two years.
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Inflicting cruelty and giving rise to mental anxiety that can be injurious to health and life.
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Wife can file a divorce based on the grounds of rape, sodomy and bestiality.
The following are the grounds for divorce in India included in the Parsi Marriage and Divorce Act, 1936 and the amendment of the same in 1988.
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Continuous absence of seven years.
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Non-consummation of marriage within one year.
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Unsound mind provided the other spouse was unaware of the fact at the time of marriage and the divorce must be filed within three years of marriage.
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Pregnancy by some other man provided the husband was unaware of the incident during the time of marriage and that he must not have undergone s*xual intercourse after he came to know about the situation. The divorce must be filed within two years of marriage.
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Adultery, bigamy, fornication, rape, or any other type of perverse s*xual act.
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Act of cruelty
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Suffering from venereal disease or forcing the wife into prostitution.
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Sentenced to prison for seven years or more
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Desertion for two or more years
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Non-resumption of cohabitation after passing an order of maintenance or a decree of judicial separation.
And she has to prove with evidence about the same, only then divorce will be granted.
2. If I have to show that my wife is cruel will the fact that I have written mails to her (So i have tried for reconcilliation) & she has not replied amount to cruelty
She not replying to mail does not amount to mental cruelty, but your futile efforts to reconcile will prove as mental cruelty.
Further deliberately not wishing husband of his Birthday be a ground to establish cruelty?
It is not necessary that wife should wish Husband on his birthday.
3. I have audio recording of the abuse done by my fil. Is it a good proof?
Very good proof, make multiple copies of the same and keep.
4. Why is my fil insisting that I go to their residence to meet my wife. What is generally the motive?
To get you arrested. They surely will file a false case on you, and put you behind bars.
5. My wife has not had s*x with me during honeymoon or 1st night as she did not want kids for a year. So isnt that an unilateral decision?
It up to you how to convince her to have kids. But denying s e x to husband is a very good ground for divorce.
6. At home since we live in a small apartment with my parents & we plan to move to a larger house & because of pt 5 we did not
have s*x. Can my wife put a counter charge against me for refusal to have s*x & lack of privacy?
You are crying also and replying to your own query. If there is lack of space, you should have moved in to a resort, or something of that sort and had a jolly good time there. If lack of privacy is the issue at hand then you cannot do anything, either shift separately or forget having s ex.
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