@sufferer
She used to get more than 1000 dollars per month as unemployed - thats how it works in that particular country. She wanted to hoard that but I convinced her to contribute from her share as the money was being given by the govt to be spent and not to hoard (why would I let her do that if she especially had intent to desert?)
Now in India she wants all that unemployment money back and is saying I forced her to contribute to the household income from her unemployment benefit.
This is just one of the recordings - to prove desertion. I was having doubt about money contribution which has been cleared now.
I have many other audio and video which will disprove all their allegations (at least I feel that).
My primary motive is to put pressure on the wife side before mediation to be done in high court (thru stay on arrest) to become more and more reasonable in their selfish and moneytory demand. However police today told me that even if we given them the smaller set of audio files before the mediation they will not do anything about it as it is in mediation. I am guessing the mediation will most likely fail as my intent is a reasonable settlement while their aim is to settle forcefully under threat of 498a etc and DV case. She is willing to stay with me but there are some conditions which I cannot accept e.g. moneytory claim, staying in the same apartment complex as her parents etc....
So I am planning to trap them - first with 25% of evidence before mediation, then second 25% in another case or in later stage and then finally my biggest ones in evidence stage. As time goes by they will keep seeing the pressure on them rise as well as it might on me (think pressure on me might decrease as I am getting used to being alone :) ), will get some sort of visitation rights and if I am lucky then custody as well of at least one child out of 2 children.
A lot of them are in original media and I will give them copies in CD - phone conversations of her with her parents...and mutual discussions recorded.
Do u think this is Ok strategy?????? Why do police say that audio evidence will not help, and they r discouraging me to give evidence, they r saying to give before chargesheet or after ?????????????
Thanks to all of u experts.