Dear experts,
I have started paying maintenance from the date of the order that was about 18months ago. I pay on most of the dates in the court itself. And still there is an arrear amount pending to the tune of 50k and I need some more time to clear all that. And I am following the advise of autohide that is , pay a little then stop a little. And like so many victims here, I want her to run around courts for the money for all she did to me and my family. Now a days she is thrusting a bunch of papers under the judges nose and praying that an NBW be issued against me. The honourable judge has asked me to file an objection for that and the next date is going to be the arguments for that. In case I lose the arguments and the judge decides to issue a warrant against me, what will happen? I don’t own a single piece of land, property or even a vehicle. Will they arrest me immediately or on the verge of getting arrested can I pay the entire arrears and proceed with the case. I don’t want my defences to be blocked too. I will keep on paying some amount here and there according to my capacity. I am not defying court orders as I am already paying. It is just that I am willing to pay but not able to . I know there is going to be a barrage of abuses from women and pro women men. So apart from all that I would honestly like to get replies from real victims and learned lawyers who have seen and known both sides of the coin.