Hello,
My parents have two kids. I am the eldest daughter (Born HIndu got married to a christian) and i have a younger brother, I also have a younger brother. My father died many years ago. Our family had to face loads of financial problems after that. I stood by her giving up my education n started working, to clear one loan I had to take one more...and so it went on....but my younger brother didnt bother to help a bit and stayed away from all the financial problems even if we were staying under one roof. ...also During which my mother's brothers didnt help much as she was not included in her parents will. and also kept me aside as I was the only one who stood by her. Her brothers always felt i was trouble as I would always speak out for my mother. And always speak out of rights. ....But however when her grand parents property got sold. she got her mother's share. She was given the money but told to put me out of the share and they cleared all the loans.
Now resently my brother got married. both him n his wife is aware of the situation are now trying to get me out of the family by presurizing my mother.
Mom is given the money by her brothers to clear the loan n start a fresh life but without me in the picture. and my brother knows that and he's taking advantage n making it even big. Uncles are supporting my brother and telling me that only he'll get the share n not you. earlier I didnt wanted anything but know I dont want to go down like this. not for the things i have done for the family.
my mother is stuck between this not knowing what to do.
Now my question to you is.
1: What do you suggest my mother do to secure her money. so that it gets divided equally between us.
2: Brothers still have the money so for any legal works, like will she needs to go through them. because if she does a "will" without their knowledge, she wont get anything and probably knowing her she will let go of it. which i dont want it to happen.
3: if they force her to do a will in my brothers name only, can i contest against it in future.
4: can i ask for my share right now as it is still in the form of money.
Please advise me on this, as tme is running and we are confused.
Thanks
Rachel