Divorce

As mr. Siddarth found answers in your questions, you seems to be jumping gun too far.

Include a statement in your plea that you will be paying for child support.

The rest as case evovles.

Desertion is your best case. But remember you have to prove intention as well.

Cruelty is due to separation (lack of intimacy)..blah.blah..

Voulntarily you should offer alimony (personal view) as she has been wife and mother to a child. No matter her own potential.

I didnt get all proper advice from Mr. Siddharth.

@ Whatnot. Why should i offer voluntarily alimony to my wife. In my post i have mentioned that for last 6 yrs i have tried my level best in convincing and persuading my wife to return to my house. Even i told her that whatever asssets i got it will be all hers & our child. A husband always tries to take good care of her wife & child. But my wife is so arrogant she stick to her stubborness. Today she have shattered my dreams. Today i am suffering so much that i cant even work properly. It have affected my career. If such things continue then a day will come very soon where i need to get maintenance. So a lady who have ruined my life then why should i offer her alimony. For what reason ? 

Even i asked the child custody from her voluntarily. As my wife is staying in a girls school hostel , i fear that when my son will become 8-9 yrs old then parents /gaurdians of that girls school students will raise objections abt my son staying there in the girls hostel. Today my son he is only 5 yrs old so thats why no one is objecting. Moreover Hostel is not the right place for my sons uprbinging. For those reason i asked the custody of my son from my wife keeping in mind the welfare of my son is topr priority. Today there is no feeling / bonding between a father -son as my wife have distanced between us. Then also i am ready to pay maintenance for my son  because i dont want his life to get ruined. So when i have moved for divorced petition its most likely to happen that my wife will try to give the custody of the son to me because she is fearing that after divorce i may get remarry which she dont want or cant tolerate that fact. So anyhow she will try to stop me from getting remarried. For taht reason she is ready to give the custody of son on to me.  After divorce whether i do get marry or not its entirely my wish and decision. 

Ignore Mr. Siddarth answer at your own peril. His reply is classic example of answer is within query. He has highlighted relasvant part of your query. Read it. Understand it. Repat until you understand what he emant. If not send a personal message and request for clarification.

Mr Das, you're at dilemma. One part of you says let go past and live for future. Other part wants your past to be rectified (lack of helth or passion in work).

A child is the sufferer. Child suffers not beacuse of lack of proper place or money. But lack of parent love. He will lose one parent or both in coming days (i meant love)

You may have vvalid points of justification. Whatever it is you are answerable.

There is nothing better than compassion. Even a small portion of your earning should be kept aside even if she is at fault for break up. That is dharma.

We will never know what's story on the other side of aisle.

Let not emotion ruin your future.

Have a conversation with her(if she's called you then room for negotiation exists). Sort like two adult without blaming each other.

Issue to sort out

1) Divorce. If so on what condition.

2) Child. future.

Go with plan and any court will hear your plea.

You both may have suffered enough. why continue to suffer in coming years, beacuse a contest divorce will take time and your energy.

Truth is bitter pill to swallow. Hence doing right is tough.

1. It is deplorable that husband and wife are both trying to avoid custody of child. 
2. Have you tried to discuss matter amicably? Perhaps you can agree on visitation for child so that he can have both parents. Perhaps your wife may agree for mutual divorce on payment of some alimony or setting aside some assets for future of child?

Hi i think your all

quarry will answerd well by MR.sidharath and their no confusion behind in your mind 

thanks