Hi,
I and my husband have not been getting along well,we have now been married for 5 years ,there were many problems including the fact that he had cheated me by giving me a false date of birth and horoscope.Following an year of marriage, he had demanded money from me to get appointment for a lecturers post.Later my husband had sent a legal notice to me since I did not comply with his demand for money,asking for me to join him in his workplace whereas I was in another state employed permanently.When I did not relent he filed a petition for divorce in July 2006,later during a counselling we had reconciled ,but still working in different places(I have now quit my permanent job and am working in a pvt firm.Now in July 2008,he wants to file ex-parte divorce,to which I have not replied,I would like to know if it is possible a)to file for a mutual consent divorce and b)whether there is any disadvantage in his filing for ex-parte and c)since I am earning more than him ,can he ask for alimony(at present he is employed and earning) .
Thanks.