Dear All,
My brief story is ,
Marriage : 20.03.2005
Registration : 24.05.2005
May’2005 end hubby flied to Dubai,
From that period onwards iam suffering torture by my in-laws (father,mother,brother(unmarried)),though I tolerate all this things for my lovable hubby.
My parents spent 5laks for marriage by getting finance by bank,25soverign gold &one lakh cash for his father.
I got passport & flied on sep’2005 , there we lead happy life .
Then we return to India (nov’2005) , on that day itself my mother in law told to me that she is suffering from uterus problem she have go to his brothers home for hospitality & for rest too,she ask me to stay for 2months ill be back here then you can stay with your hubby here itself,so my hubby sent me to my parents home from that date onwards I did call for my hubby0-no response , will go to my matrimonial home – they use to speak unparlimentry words against me & my parents (though my mother in law came to the home after one month of operation (uterus)but they didn’t inform us,my father in law wont allow me to speak even to hubby (hubby also says lots of complaint against me about my stay with him in dubai- he is a fatherpecked son)
After much persuation I joined my hubby after 5 months (ie)on April’2006
On june’2006 I got conceive,he is very much happy about a junior going to come as his son/daughter.
Later then he use to beat me &scold me in bad words,then on one day his father ask us to go out separate,I said no,but hubby arrange for separate portion in the next sroad of that same area where in laws are staying.me & hubby stayed in new rented home for just 2weeks,he kicked me in my stomach one day (I got pain in my stomach)so I went to hospital, doctor said to take scan whether baby is alive or not,that scan report id dtd.08.08.2006
Then in sep’2006 he sent me to my parents home, saying that his parents are all hating me so after delivery he come & take me.so I accept,then he didn’t come to see even his child.lots of phone calls – direct visit – no response .my hubby leave that rented home & join his parents, after I have gone to my parents home (I use to go there-father in law wont allow me to get inside, in that sun burn itselt I have to take my 3months old baby to my parents home itself)
After separation of 1yr & 9 months I waited for my hubby,but he is not at all in a position to hear me.so I gave complaint to commissioner of police , to ask my hubby to join me,iam not working iam just +2,so police officer ask him – he refuse to stay with me for no reason then they gone for further enquiry with me & hubby then they ask my hubby to return Rs.15,000/- & gold jewels I refuse to get that,but they simply said that this was the procedure & this is the limit of police station,so go ahead in family court (by taking a written statement from me & hubby) they seny us.
After a week he sent divorce notice from court in all false allegation,then filed d.v petition for residence & maintence order ,its going on for 2 months.
Plz honorable lawyers reply to my question for the sake of myself & my kid,I want to stay with my hubby (atleast upto my divorce proceding)
How long it will take to get residence /maintenance order?
How long it will take to complete divorce case (I wont give divorce means what will happen for that case)
Will he get divorce?
He is working in a bank’s back office earning Rs.50,000/month no dependants
His father is self employed as a tailor shop owner,mother house wife,brother is working in the same bank’s back office earning Rs.25,000/month no dependants,unmarried
One house is owned by father in law.
My doubt is can I stay with my hubby in my matrimonial home?
After a week he sent divorce notice from court in all false allegation,then filed d.v petition for residence & maintence order ,its going on for 2 months.
Yester we had hearing in d.v case , at that place hubby’s councel ask me for settlement , before that he call me over fone & ask for the same , but I refuse to do so , then he asked yesterday agin I refuse , so he said “if u get residence order I’ll go for revisions then u have to face legal torture by us so plz accept for settlement u have no rights to stay in father in law home . so why u are wasting time accept for settlemene , he is saying like this lots of time.
Iam very much fearing about his words , so what I have to do?
If I didn’t accept for settlement means can I have to face any legal pressure ?
Though I get residence order , hubby councel will get stay against residence order & further he go for revision & drag the case as long as he wants means then what is the use of d.v act benefits?
Till he drag the case till hubby got divorce?
Iam very confused ,so please explain me by assuming me as ur sister & my kids life
What is the time limit to get residence order ,if hubby councel go fo revision in higher court?
Is the councel words are right?(hubby councel)
Give any one of the case as myself case for me to understand on what basis he will appeal further , according to ur experience.
Where ur are residing sir,why because my councel is simply shaking the head for his councel words , (my councel was appointed by court for my behalf on free (because I have no source of income)
So I want to change the councel as of you.plz,plz,plz reply to all my quires.
