sangitapari1986 (abc) 10 November 2012

Divorce - 498a

dear lawyers,

me and my husband are seperated for last 2.5 years. he is not interested in continuing with me. so, i sent hime a lawyer notice that his family members tortured me when he is not present in the matrimonial home because of dowry. I am interested in living with him if he come to my home and take me back. but he has filed DV case. We want to teach him a lesson as he spoiled my life with a kid.

i have the receipts for the gold ornaments purchased during marriage. but while i am coming to my home, i brought all my ornaments. if i say in the court that all jewels are with my husband by showing the bills and marriage video in which i wear those ornaments as proof, how could he escape?

I came to know that he will pray for a police search in his home, if i say the jewels are with him. Is this argument will work in court?

the marriage is celebrated in my husband home town and reception in our home town. in our notice, we stated that we spent entire marriage expense of 15 lakhs by selling our old house. but the selling document shows only 4.8 lakhs to minimise registration duties. Can he say in the court that we did not spent for marriage because the marriage is held in husbands town? Can he say our allegation of 15 lakh expense is wrong by showing the selling value of 4.5 lakh?

Can all my allegations be treated us wrong if i fail to prove anyone of my alleagion in my notice?

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stanley (Freedom) 10 November 2012

what exactly do you want ??

If you are interested in divorce you can file for it and it would be contested divorce alternatively you can file for Mutual consent divorce where both agree to the terms and conditions in it and the waiting time is just 6 months .

1. if you have spent 15 lacs in marriage expenses there is no law where you can recover the same .

2. you have taken away all the gold which you had been given you cant ask for anything more .

3. So you have a ego issue and you want your husband to come and take you back rather you dont want to go back and keeping aside your ego and making the marriage work . At the time of evidence stage and cross examination you would get caught . A lie is a lie and there is always a trace left behind to track the culprit down .Does'nt your conscience hurt you when it comes to speaking the truth .

4. All you can get is maintanence for the child and in case he takes over custody of the child that too you would not be getting . if you are qualifed was working earlier you may not even get maintanence for yourself .

Now I wish our women sympathetic repliers to guide her in filing false cases and with the usual Favourite quote " although its is difficult to prove Domestic violence inside four walls of the bedroom