Divorce

Dear Girish ,

Better option for you is to approach women cell and through them call her for coming back . If she agrees than on agreed terms and conditions take her back, that shall help you as record if in future you have further dispute or any other major roller coaster in your marriage . The conditions shall be binding on her and shall stand as evidence in future if required.

Regards,

Adv. NIKHIL SETH 

Mumbai 

If she wants to come back just let her come back. These kinds of fights keep happening between husband and wife and you do not have to involve police and women cell unnecessary into such trivial matters. Maybe she must have realised her mistake and seen things in better perspective. She is your wife for god's sakes and she has full right to come back back. Do not unnecessarily complicate the matters. People do say things in the heat of moment without really meaning them so just bring her back and once things are normal between you two, sit and talk things out and try sort the problems. You do not have to think about legal actions and their repercussions on every small or big fight you both have. Chill and try live a happy married life.

I think Ish*ta has given a very valuable piece of advise which generally most of the experts hesitate to render. I fully endorse Ish*ta's wonderful suggestion, and request the queryist to follow the same which will not only save his marriage but also a better solution for his  bright and prosperous future ahead.

thank u sir for ur kind advice. i did try to bring her back four times 4 but all the time she insulted me in front of my family as well as her family and told  that she dont want to stay with me ever on all the 4  meetings.she had also gone to police stn and verbally complained agisnt me but when i spoke to the officer there even there alo she said to police officer that she dont want to stay with me. and now i think she is messaging and calling me to bring me in to fault  that i am not calling her but actually she deserted me since last 4 months. i am really feeling sick of tis . she asked for divorce also in last moth and was threatening me to send legal notice and with dire threats also thru her people.u only tell me  wot shud   a  men  do  to  his wife  who  dont give a ny respect to her husband in public and just tryng to trap er in false case just to get alimony and maintenance from him? remember pls that  the men nver deserted her wife but now is scared to even talk to his wife fearing trap laid down by her and her family members and maybe her lawyer too ? 

See it takes two to tango. Writing here that it was only her all through who has been creating ruckus while you are a silent victim would not be right. I m sure there must have been things done from your side also to make her behave like his and feel insecure in her married life and most importantly with you. No woman would take such extreme steps unless and until driven till a point to do so. I would sill in all earnestness ask you to try and sort the matter between you two. Bring her back, go out of town for few days and try and explain things to her and also hear her part out patiently. It will benefit both of you and your families too. A broken marriage is too hard to get over with. My advice can only be towards saving homes. Rest you are a better judge of the situation. maybe she needs your love and attention more than anything else so try doing that for some time. Weigh all your options and only when you have exhausted them take any harsh steps.

i think here better to take help of woman cell or elders of both family , if you take her back without informing any body and again if any quarrel dispute arise it happens between husband and wife then it will take blast boom,

if not also then both will under fear and pressure that some will do wrong both will live under pressure or etiher one live with guilt , in the presence of elders all the scratches may vanish and both can rejoin and start a new life,

if go legaly then both can affidavit that this will not happen they will not file anytype of case against each other, in  any type of dispute and problem they both will resolve amicably  here now both have to make confidence among each other..

i think legal solution will be better both will at least free from the fear of police and court.... and in any circumstances they will call elders to resolve the matter and elders will also help as per their affidavit so that no worst situation arises...

ish*ta you are correct but in practical your advise is applicable to only learned and understanding couples if they are such type of people then no such situation will arise , i hope you will understand what  i want to say?

 the couple who are free from ego. personnel gurdge and revengeful act..

@Ish*ta>>>No woman would take such extreme steps unless and until driven till a point to do so.

I would like to ask a question on your real generalised statement. Do you think all men are rapists and all men take extreme steps. I would strongly urge you not to use the words"no woman would". You cannot and should not generalise the statement in any case.

If i would say, no men hurts any women, then u will surely feel offended. So, never generalise ur statements while judging people. I hope you would not judge me here too now.