Even if u have recordings....this will take years to prove that its her voice....and u havent done any changes in the recordings... by the time, you get the divorce...you will old and not even willing to live your life...happily.
Hence, either....put pressure on her via some common source OR pur pressure on her boy friend to get married to her.... then she would be eager to divorce you. If they having a time pass affair, then you are screwed........ as then she wont agree to give you divorce....!!! and you will be wasting years getting it.......