I do not know what you regard to be good advice. However will try to help you. Regarding your query of whether the divorce shall becone easier upon the adultery being proved, it would actually not just make it easy but in fact will help you win the case. What i mean to say os that you shall not have to prove anything else. However dultery is very hard to prove. regarding the admission made on voice regardings, the truth is that the way and manner in which electronic evidence can be used in court is very technical and categorical. It involves a lot of essential conditions that need to be taken care of and a particular affidavit u/s 65-B of the Indian EVidence Act which needs to be filed as per law.
Whether or not tyou coming to India is necessary totally depends on the terriroty and city wheere your case shall be pending because there are different trends in different courts. As such the trend in Delhi is gto dispense with personal apprearnce of the party as long as the lawyer appears. However it is different than the said procedure in some NCR areas.
Any counter cases which may be filed by her do not depend on your presence being in India . If she chooses to she may file the said cases even fi you are abroad.
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Augustine Chatterjee
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