Mr. SHIIV SHIV,
I don't know whether you will read my this reply to your query dtd 12.2.11,for, I'm sorry, tobe out of touch with you for the last almost 6 moths. My this reply will answer the queries raised by Awinash Kaur ji, Ambika ji and Mr. Smile. Awinash ji the ruling which I hinted gives only this much version that the SCI has given recognition to the fact that the ambitions of the couple have now turned in, in many of the matrimonial cases, to take this sacred relationship like an implied civil contract wherein they put in conditions tobe with their spouse before marriage or after marriage. The essence of Hindu marriage is a sacred relationship of two souls in a religious manner never never backing out of it. Very good wordings have been used by the SCI in the ruling which I had hinted. This ruling is almost more than 10 yrs old and it only states that this relationship in modern time is now becoming a contract like relationship. I do not remember the exact title and case no. but if you contact maanvisushant@gmail.com perhaps you may get it.
Now my reply to Ambika ji, please. Ambika ji, to get govt. job for a divorced lady in the quoto of widow/divorce ladies the out of court divorce document will not work, that much I meant, because they seek divorce decree of court. Please be clear that in general quota there is no problem, as such. Regarding future complications etc you have spoken very nice. I appreciate it. I too follow this policy. Whenever a client comes to me asking for legal help/case for divorce dowry case etc I tell him/her first to thoroughly decide. Because once the legal procedure starts then the bitterness in relation will jump to Himalayan heights. So if can adjust and compromise and maintain mutual tolerance then save your family life. And if you adopt legal course be thorough and don’t look back and get cleared with the completion of all legalities in every respect of your matrimonial rights and liabilities, specially when children have taken birth, so that they may not suffer due to your bad relations,for which they are not at fault.
Now, as far as steps/procedure, agreement and duration, I’m answering SHIV SHIV and Mr. Smile, see, its between you and your spouse to settle the terms genuinely in writing before a quasi judicial authority without any fraud, fear, pressure, coercion and undue pressure and the things should be completely voluntarily. And then a period of 3 yrs will hang over you both and any of you can challenge the out of the court mutual divorce document in the court if the document is got executed under undue pressure etc. And if nobody challenges it even after long lapse of 3 yrs then the document will become finally admissible as evidence of private mutual voluntary separation. And it will work as a very good defence if any thing goes wrong. So the procedure and steps are very simple. The law of estoppel and the law of fact admitted can not be argued will also help if any thing goes wrong in future.
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