Hi, I have posted earlier also in the forum that my wife has Paranoid Schizophrenia (7 1/2 years of marriage). Recently, she had slapped our old neighbor lady and they came to my wife's native (and called PCR, but they left the premises). She also blamed me that I have an extra marital affair with that lady without any reasons. After that we have stopped talking to each other (and families too stoped talking). Wife shouted on me that I need divorce and do not want to live with you, you have your affair with that lady and I am impotent.
1) We recently asked one of the colony members to visit her family and know the situation on what they think. However, it seems that now they are now taking U turn by saying that I (husband) never called them and my wife is missing me a lot. This is actually a usual story - my wife always blames me for everything and then, she starts missing me after few days or a month. Mutual divorce is most likely not possible, since they will never agree for a divorce, even though they keep on warning me or making police complaints that she needs divorce. Any way out?
2) Do I need to prove in family court that she is paranoid schizophrenia patient before marriage or so, since I will not be able to prove this. I have her medical records, but only for last 2-3 years. Will court ignore my case on the context that all this must have happened after marriage (My wife had a miscarriage in the year 2009 - same yeaar we got married). She completed her MA in English after marriage.
3) If suppoose mutual divorce discussion does not work, then they may keep quiet or file a series of false cases against me. Should I wait for her reaction, or can I file case against her? I have following points with me: She has sucidal tendency, she has attempted to hit me earlier (pushing me aside), not allowing me to go to office for 2-3 days or a week, blaming and giving warning to me and my family, asking for divorce again and again, calling me impotent, blaming me for extra marital affair. I do have witness (old neighbor family) to prove that she blamed me of extra marital affair. But not other points (may be text messages /some audio (copied to my external Hard disk) to my office seniors that I will not be able to come to office).
Please suggest.
